General Chat

Thanks Malc! Yes Paul, you're right. Am trying to write the letter now and post it before I change my mind! becx

Right. 'Dear M, I managed to get hold of your address and just wondered whether you fancied catching up? If you don't please let me know so that I know this note reached you. Maybe speak soon Love becx Mobile number Email address' What do you think???

HELP!

You have to go for it....you will regret it if you dont. Good luck..emma x

Thanks Emma, what do you think of what I've written?

Yes that is fine now the balls in his court now

Thanks Val Have written the envelope... just need to find a stamp... feel sick with nerves... becx

Ok... <bec gulps nervously>

Write to him. If you don't, you'll always wondering what might have happened if you had. What's the worst that can happen. He doesn't reply. So, at least you tried. Nothing venture, nothing gained. Go for it Baby Bec Wendy xXx

Note is in addressed envelope Wendy! Will post it shortly... Becx :-S

I think what you have written is perfect...GO FOR IT!!!!!! Emma xx

Thanks Bev What a lovely story...becx

Hi Bec Only just seen your dilemma. So glad to hear your sending the letter :-) When I was at infant school there was a boy in my class, Michael, who was my 'kinda' boyfriend (I was only about 7!) and I remember us passing notes back and forth between the two of us and I remember us promising to have at least 2 children. Anyway, 13 years ago I bumped into Michael again, he was working with my best mate so quite often I would pop into her workplace and if she wasnt about I would sit chatting to him, anyway he asked me out, but I turned him down as I had just started seeing someone. 8 years later I broke up with the bloke that I turned Michael down for after I found out he was a cheating on me, and all I could think of was 'what if I hadnt turned Michael down', anyway 3 months later I plucked up the corruge to do something about it, I worked in a Building Society at the time and Michael's parents had an account with us, so I wrote a letter to his parents advising them of a new savings account that they might be interested in and at the end I put 'PS, say Hi to Michael for me, we used to go to school together and it would be great to catch up sometime', I made sure that I signed the letter Miss, just so he knew I wasnt married :-) Anyway, I never heard from him, but at least I tried, I still think 'what if' but hay! nothing ventured, nothing gained! :-) Sorry for the rambings, good luck and keep us informed Karen x

Oh Karen What a lovely thing to do... i really thought you were going to say you lived happily ever after... :-( Well this guy M, he probably won't reply. I've texted a friend who is close to M and he said he doesn't want to know but Im hoping a letter with my contact details may give him that push! Fingers crossed Becx

Hi Bec, go on send the letter you've got nothing to lose have you, like someone has already said the ball will be in his court then. At least you'll have an answer either way, hope all goes ok hun, keep your chin up and keep smiling. Sarah, :) xx

Thanks Sarah Letter is now written, enveloped and stamped.. am off out shortly and will post it :-S WIll keep you updated Love becx <HUG>

Post it bec you'll know one way or the other then . Ihope it works out for you. love kirsty :)))

Thanks Kirsty! I'll do it :-) Love becx

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my 1st love grew up in the same village and both of us still live here (in different houses mind). I still see him from time to time, his mum always says hello to me when I see her down the village. All this is making me feel old now lol. Sarah, xx