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my son once said i hate you so much i wish i'd never been born ouch that hurt

My ex m.i.l told my 2yr old daughter'Stop walking in front of the tv,get on that chair ' When she did as told and got on chair pointed to m.i.l s dog promptly bit her,m.i.l then said ' What do you expect if you get on the dogs chair ?' I lost my temper ,took my children home and refused to visit again.

It one that sticks in my mind and still annoys me to this day. My dad had just died and I was still working and at lunch had to go and order the wreath for my dad and pay in a cheque for work. I went and ordered the wreath and forgot to pay in the cheque. As I realised this at work my boss jumped in and said angrily ' I bet you didn't forget to order the wreath' well no I Bl***y didn't. Heartless or what.

I could not tell you Pink. After almost forty years.... it still hurts. The power of words!!! Deanna X

a so called friend who just a few weeks ago said 'i was wallowing in self pity over the murder of my son' it did happen 5 years ago and two years later my husband died ..... i am still needing counselling xxxx

Rosie, she was an IDIOT...... What a pratt..... Better stop now, I'll get over cooked with rage. God bless. Deanna X

It's a toss up between being told they couldn't find a heartbeat at a scan and being told by my brother that as far as he is concerned i am dead. That was nearly 4 years ago, and so far he is sticking to his word!!

One of the hurtfull things was many years ago when I was about 10, my true father turned up on the door step and said to my mom, I've come to see the lads (my 2 brothers are older than me and my sister), I asked my mom after he had gone, if us girls had the same father...all 4 of us do, I have learnet since then that it was the wages they were bringing in that he wanted, he showed the same intrest in us girls when we were old enough to bring in money, but by then I didn't want to know him, is it any wonder?????? Bev

I agree Rosie, this so called friend was an idiot. How can anyone say there is a time limit on that kind of grief. Don't listen to it. You take all the time you need. Take Carex :o)

god there are some really nasty people out there!!! and some very sad stories coming thru ... hugs to everyone !! ((((((xxxx))))))))) JIlly x

Hyah thanks for your comments and support tis appreciated .... will never forget what she said .... still brings me to tears when i think about it ... and it was said on 4th March ... i feel like i am making progress in getting my life back and then am knocked sideways again .... would not wish this on anyone even her xxxx

Vanessa, just what my mother constantly said to us......if it was up to me none of you would have been here.xxxxx ((((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))))

My heart goes out to each and every one of you who has been hurt. I feel so privileged to have had a loving mother and father. XXX BC

Oh BC, i had the most loving dad..anyone could of had, still miss him ((22yrs))

Ah well Wenders, I suppose one out of two aint bad:-) XXX BC

I have just read some very sorry sad stories on this thread and feel so sad for those people I must have had an exceptional mum in all her years I never recall her saying one bad word to me even when I deserved it and I did sometimes Bless you mum xxxxxx

No he made up for it BC ....he was a special person.xxxxx

it's over :(

I've had a lot of bad things said to me but doesn't happen anymore which is good. :-)

My Mum died in June and a couple of months ago, the women who Mum and Dad fostered for all of one month ( they did keep in touch, maybe every 6/9 months over the years, until she had children and decided that my Mum and Dad would be good grandparents and she took to turning up on a monthly basis) turned round to me and said ' I loved your Mum more than you! and she was the only Mum I ever knew' ' You and your children get all the sympathy and me and mine get none' I'm sure my Mum was the only Mum I ever knew as well, and as for getting sympathy I didn't realise it was a competition Joanne