General Chat

Very nervous........ but excited too. I was scared I was going to cock it up. Daft really.......... only two little words 'I do' but they mean soooooooooooooooo much.

i think others have gone to beddie byes now........ your right gez.

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BOO

my brains slowly dissolving.......

Bl**dy hell wot was that!!

It was the squelching of my brains falling out of my ears......PMSL

Had a looooong looooong day

nite nite xxxxxxxx

Congratulations Tara - sure you will be very happy. Recipe for success - give and take - you take he gives lol. Seriously always remember to talk and laugh together - just enjoy - been married 40 years this year so I must or sorry we must have done something right somewhere. Take care Love Mary in Spain xx

No tips really but... CONGRATUALTIONS !!!!!!! Gaynor :-)))) xxx

congratulations tara have agreat day and the old saying goes just be yourself love cant ask for anything more best wishes joyce from hollandxx

Good luck Tara xxx

Hi Joyous hows you nice to see u back, like the name Lilxx

LIL WHERE YA BEEN,YOU ARE SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO IN TROUBLE MRS,WE BEEN WORRIED SICK. right now thats out the way..............tara as i said i been married 28 years,[you get less for murder,lol]no really ,my man has been good to me,ive been sick alot due to my illness and hes had to do some pretty yukky things for me,not once has he ever complained.and i remember me going into hostpital for the first time,and i was trying to be brave,but inside i was breaking.he said did i want to talk about it,i said im so scared.i came up with all the usual what ifs,and he said just because i dont say anything ,does,nt mean im not bothered.he said i look at you asleep at night and pray i,ll have many more years of seeing you fast asleep and peacefull.and not to be robbed of that gift...............that night we sobbed............to me thats love. hugsxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Thankyou everyone for the congrat's :-) Awww Joy, that certainly is love. My finacee & I have been togeather for 4 years at present & shared some difficult times outside of our control and relationship, but we have supported one another when it gets to much for either of us. My OH is similar Joy, sometimes he won't say much on a particular subject but has said that it doesn't mean his not listening or there for me, just that he needed to take a back seat (with his opinions) until he knew I needed him. We do argue too, not lots but I think that in a good healthy relationship there will be argument's occasionally especially in the beginning as you are getting to know one another. People that say they never argue or disagree boggles me, coz I know people that have had long marriages, I mean 25+ years, and they have had arguments throughout there marriages and some off them breaking points but have worked out their differences, compromised you know, and had more years of happiness togeather. Can people be that 'perfectly' suited that they 'never' argue????

I think i have one of the best.Been married 36 years this year.Been with him since we were both 17 and got married at 18.I have just been very ill the last 2 weeks and had to take to my bed.On so many tablets i rattle.He has taken time off from work and done everything.Even the tumble drier that he would never touch.I can only say we do argue but at the end of the day we are there for each other. Annie

hiya all, i have been wed 40 yrs next month, you want to know the secret,? well have a dam good row every week, it works for us lol x

Hello Tara, Many congratulations to you and your OH. I better not give any tips, none would be proven LOL Tina x

Congrats tara, ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm lots of sex, no seriously, compromise is the best, Caz xxxxxx