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''Declarations of Nullity'' Olde Crone - come back

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Merry

Merry Report 9 Sep 2005 08:24

See below in a mo......

Merry

Merry Report 9 Sep 2005 08:25

My grandmother married in May 1915. The marriage was bigamous as her new husband was already married. I don't know if she knew this or not, but they separated within weeks of the wedding. He was a fraudster and a thief who by 1916 was in jail. In 1917 he was divorced by his first wife - decree absolute in July 1917. By this time he was out of jail and was back at the front, where he was killed in August 1917. (so wife 1 did herself out of a pension....) I have documentation that suggests that the army and the police never seemed to realise he had more than one wife. There are references to both of these women (dates and addresses prove to me the records refer to different people) but nothing to suggest anyone in authority realised Mrs X was two people!! Now for the crunch..... My grandmother ''re-married'' in Nov 1917 stating her condition as spinster. She may not have known her first ''husband'' was dead, as he died under an assumed name. So, she may have thought she was still legally married and that her new marriage was bigamous. Or she may have found out that the first marriage was bigamous and had it annulled (or found out, but not bothered to do anything about it). Is there any way I can find out if the first marriage was annulled?? (It was in a C of E church, if that makes any difference) Happy Hunting Merry x

Gwyn in Kent

Gwyn in Kent Report 9 Sep 2005 08:36

Would she have needed an annulment or would she have considered that the 1st marriage just never was legal and binding?

Merry

Merry Report 9 Sep 2005 10:45

This is something I don't know Gwyneth?? (Do we have any lawyers doing their tree??) I would have thought that my gran might have decided this for herself: ''That marriage didn't count, so I'll carry on as if it never happened''......but I would have thought in law, you would have to prove that the marriage wasn't legally binding in some way, before you could go on to marry again...... After all, had she told the vicar at the second marriage that she had been married before, but it didn't count because her first hubby was already married, the second vicar wouldn't say, ''Oh, that's all right my dear, I believe you''!! Merry

Nicola

Nicola Report 9 Sep 2005 12:47

I'm not sure about the situation in the early 1900's but nowadays, a bigamous marriage does not meet the requirements of UK law and is treated as if it never happened (a void marriage). As it never legally occurred it doesn't need to be annulled. Hope this helps. Nicky

Merry

Merry Report 9 Sep 2005 13:01

OOh that's interesting!! Thank you. So you would only have to prove it if someone asked you to - ie find the original cert.............might be difficult to prove if the first husband was called John Smith..... Hmmmm Merry

Merry

Merry Report 9 Sep 2005 13:47

Ooh, I've just found this on the web ( incase anyone else has this situation.....) ''A marriage is void if it does not comply with the requirements for legal marriage. In addition, although considerations of domicle mean that UK court may recognize polygamous marriages conducted outside the UK, a marriage of this type will be void if either party was domiciled in the UK. If either partner in a void marriage seeks to marry again, a `declaration of nullity' must be sought from the High Court. If a marriage is though to be void (see void marriage), either partner can apply to the High Court for a ''declaration of nullity'', indicating that the marriage effectively never took place.'' So, my gran should have applied for a declaration of nullity before her second marriage. (Bet she didn't lol) I wonder if I can find out if she did?? Merry

Merry

Merry Report 9 Sep 2005 17:01

Have been reading about declarations of nullity. You could apply to the High Court for one if you wanted ''out'' of a marriage where you had grounds that there was something amiss at the time the marriage took place. (as opposed to a divorce, where something has gone wrong after the marriage!) Some possible grounds for a declaration of nullity (all ''at date of marriage''): Person underage for any form of marriage Underage for marriage without consent (and none given) Previous marriage still lawful Person insane Marrying with false name in order to conceal identity (often underage people!) Rushing to Gretna and then not living in Scotland for the statutary number of days before the ceremony I'm sure you can think of more..... Merry

Heather

Heather Report 9 Sep 2005 17:19

But wasn't he dead by the time your grandma married in 1917? Heather

Gwyn in Kent

Gwyn in Kent Report 9 Sep 2005 17:32

What about nowadays? I know someone who married an Italian chap in England in the 1970s. It was a 1st marriage for her but he had been previously married in a Catholic ceremony in Italy and had a daughter. I heard that he had had the 1st marriage annulled. Does that count in our law? Gwyn... nosey now

Merry

Merry Report 9 Sep 2005 17:38

Yes, he was, so that makes it OK even if she hadn't done anything about her dodgy marriage - she might have known hubby 1 was dead and thought she was a widow (put spinster on the cert though...) BUT WHAT DID SHE KNOW????'. If gran didn't know the marriage was a bigamous one, and then married again not knowing hubby number one was dead (as he was serving under a false name) - then she would have always been waiting for the authorities to catch up with her, because in her eyes, her second marriage would have been bigamous (think big time hammy actress for my gran - always doing dramatic faints and/or lying in a darkened room calling for the doctor and saying she was dying - she lived to 92!!!). This would go a VERY LONG way to explain my gran's massive mood swings, refusal to mention anything in her past and one hundered and one other things !! If I could find that she had gone for a declaration of nullity, then at least I would know that she had found out that hubby number one was already married and would have married number 2 with a clear concience! Merry

Merry

Merry Report 9 Sep 2005 17:40

Sorry Gwyneth, I was responding to Heather - I don't know!! Catholic's have some different ideas about annulment of marriages.......Need to ask a Catholic! Merry

SueinKent

SueinKent Report 9 Sep 2005 19:00

Gwyneth, I think if Catholics divorce, they can remarry but the Catholic Church does not recognise the 2nd marriage unless they get an annullment from the Vatican, but the 2nd marriage would be legal in the eyes of the law. I think that is right, but I stand corrected. Sue

An Olde Crone

An Olde Crone Report 10 Sep 2005 20:06

Merry Now, this is really interesting, because a few years ago I was talking to my pet Registrar, who told me that in the 1800s, anything upto 5,000 marriages a year were ANNULLED.(Yes, I know yours was later than that). I have been fascinated by this ever since. An Annulment of marriage, by its very nature, means that a marriage never legally took place and it is as if both people had never married.There are therefore NO RECORDS for any marriages which were later annulled, even though the marriages appear in the Registers. I hope this is making sense! The only way you could get to see the record of a marriage which was later annulled, is to apply to the Registrar General, giving details of when you believe the annulled marriage took place, and he will confirm what you have told him!!!! Prior to Civil Registration, annulled marriages were scratched out in the Parish Registers! In those days you would of course have had to apply to a Church Court for an annulment. A voided marriage, I think, is slightly different, as you have said above, but the qualifications for annulling a marriage are very similar - you would not have entered into the marriage had you known 'X' about that person. I do know that in the 1800s, it was sufficient for the Church to annul a marriage, if, for instance, a man had been transported for seven years or more - he could not fulfil his marital duties from that distance (LOL). It was no great palaver, the local Vicar accepted the wife's assurance that her first old man had been sent to Australia or wherever, and she was allowed to remarry. Someone has a (re)marriage cert stating exactly this - 'Dora Bloggs, the wife of John Bloggs transported for life'. Fascinating - I can't stop thinking about all those unpublished marriages which were later annulled - I WANT TO LOOK AT THEM!!! Olde Crone

Merry

Merry Report 10 Sep 2005 20:44

Olde Crone - Ooohhh this is SSOOOOOOO important to me to get this sorted!! When you say: ''The only way you could get to see the record of a marriage which was later annulled, is to apply to the Registrar General, giving details of when you believe the annulled marriage took place, and he will confirm what you have told him!!!!'' Are you saying that because my grans first marriage reg appears in the GRO indexes that this means it was not annulled or made void or whatever??? When I asked the same question at the Family Record Office in 1990 they told me it would still appear in the index?? But I could easily believe you instead of them.... I suppose I could look at some of the right-ups for ''declaration of nullity'' in The Times newspaper that I was reading yesterday and for those where they have given the original marriage date, and the declaration of nullity was granted, I could look in the GRO indexes to see if the entry shows?? Or have I got the wrong end of the stick as usual :O(( Merry

An Olde Crone

An Olde Crone Report 10 Sep 2005 21:22

Merry Well, as I say, this information was given to me by my pet Registrar - huh, he might be wrong! I did try to engage the local Vicar in a scintillating conversation re Annulled marriages - as I say, I am obsessed by the thought of all those 'hidden' marriages! But he refused to play, saying that only an Archbishop could annul a marriage and that he, as a Vicar, had never been involved in such a thing. However, I am pretty sure (!!!) that, if you went to the High Court for a declaration of Nullity,the Registrar General would be informed by the Court, and such a thing would be noted against the original 'marriage' record held by the GRO.The fact that no entry is made in the marginal notes is suspicious! But there is the possibility that she sidestepped this hassle of going to Court - may indeed have been told by her Vicar or even the Registrar, that a bigamous marriage (her first) was no marriage at all, that she remained legally a Spinster and was entitled to call herself such on her remarriage - which would have been the first and ONLY marriage that both the Church and the Civil Authorities would recognise as legal. Phew! On the other hand, she might just have gone off and got married anyway and risked it. That doesn't matter, because in the eyes of the law, she hadnt done anything wrong! Gosh, what an exciting family you do have - mine just fell out with the neighbours! I would love to hear the end of this story, if you can find anything out. Olde Crone

Merry

Merry Report 10 Sep 2005 22:49

Just think - gran would be spinning in her grave if she thought we were talking about this - I now also have a photo of her first ''husband'' - through this site as his granddaughter has her tree on here and she was amazed to discover he had done this as well as all the other naughties!! On the other hand, gran maybe wanted people to know, otherwise why did she keep the envelopes of letters addressed to her in a married surname..... Anyway - I have been searching in The Times for declaration of nullity cases where I can check the original GRO ref. By the time I have dismissed cases with the marriage in Isle of Man or Calcutta plus the ones with no date for the marriage and the ones where the declaration was not granted, I was left with only two! The first marriage (1884) appears as normal in the idexes. The other one (1895), where the hubby was the one disputing the marriage - he is not in the index but she still is!! (I did check the original pages for them all). So it's take your pick really - Different results in different cases! I think you are right - The most likely scenario is that my gran visited her local vicar when she returned home to her parents after the marriage several hundred miles from home. The vicar recognised an attractive and flirty young woman when he saw one!! She would bat her eyelids and tell him what a terrible time she had suffered and flash a little leg....He would say, ''Don't worry my dear, just behave as if the marriage never happened'' and that would be that!! But I bet she still worried!! There was always a dark cloud over the reason she lied about her age...... Not many people are 23 in 1915 and 21 in 1917 !! She needed to seem a virginal young woman when she married the second time!! (Wonder if she had worries about the wedding night lol???) If I find out more you will be the first to know, OC!! Merry

Gwyn in Kent

Gwyn in Kent Report 10 Sep 2005 23:30

I don't know if this is any help but I know someone doing a one name study. In order to establish which Jane was married in Portsmouth ( from GRO index) mid 1800s my friend applied for the marriage certificate but they wouldn't issue it. There must have been some sort of note on the records, although the reference appeared in the index. By trawling newspapers we found that Jane had remarried, while husband Henry was alive and serving in the Navy. He returned to find her married. The bigamous marriage certificate was the one barred from issue.

An Olde Crone

An Olde Crone Report 11 Sep 2005 00:44

Gwyneth Ah, well, that would make sense, wouldn';t it - the second marriage was bigamous, therefore void. As we all know, a Registrar, not even the Registrar General, can actually DELETE any records once they have been written, but he can add a note in the margin which refers to a Corrections Book, in which are written all the secrets! I think its probably the old case of: there IS a rule,but not everyone follows it;probably all Registrars do, but not all Registrar's clerks, if you see what I mean. Having seen some less than perfect entries in PARISH registers, I wonder if, post-registration, the Registrar always remembered to inform the Vicar (if one was involved)that a marriage he had performed on such and such a date was void, annulled or bigamous! (Hmm, might explain all those marriages which appear in the PRs but dont seem to have got to the GRO!!!There's a thought!). So, Merry, there is an extremely outside chance that the marriage still stands in the Church Registers. Yes, I bet she had a few sleepless nights over this, but, silly woman, she hadnt actually done anything illegal - must have been her guilty conscience! I don't suppose the Wedding Night posed any problems, if she was as good an actress as you say she was. Olde Crone

Kenneth

Kenneth Report 11 Sep 2005 01:42

My Partner had a lot of trouble trying to find her Grandfather. When she did he was born out of wedlock so there is no father on the birth certificate so we know how difficult it seems at times. Keep up the good work Cheers Ken