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**Toothfairy*

**Toothfairy* Report 5 Jan 2008 18:18

My beautiful, loving, faithful friend has gone....
I have spent so many weeks helping others with their much loved pets and trying to save those who had no one to care for them and today i lost my beautiful Marley...
She was rescued from the RSPCA when my husband and i decided we wanted a cat. I chose my cat and he chose Marley - well, she chose him. She licked him through the cage and wouldn't let him go..She lost an eye to cruelty and loocked so desperate to be loved. She has been company when i've needed her, comfort when i've been down and one of the most perfect cats i've ever come accross...
I havn't stopped crying al day and feel it is so cruel for her to be taken from us, surely i don't deserve such punishment..Life is so unfair.
I feel my heart has been torn out and trodden on....

Bless you my sweet little Marley Moo, wait for me baby at the rainbow bridge, and i'll hold you and never let you go...
Sleep sweet angel...

LOU XXxxxxxx

**Toothfairy*

**Toothfairy* Report 5 Jan 2008 18:20

Sorry - for those who don't know i am Toothfairy (Lou) - i'm on here in this account as i can't bare to be home waiting for her to come down the garden path to meet me...

LOU XXxxxxxxxx

Ladylol Pusser Cat

Ladylol Pusser Cat Report 5 Jan 2008 18:23

ahh lou im so sorry i could cry for you xxxx thinking of you, no you dont deserve this always remember you saved her from a worse life xx

AnnCardiff

AnnCardiff Report 5 Jan 2008 18:24

how sad for you honey - that's the dreadful thing with loving animals so much - could have a swim in the tears I've shed of dogs and cats over the years

Angelina

Angelina Report 5 Jan 2008 18:24

Oh Lou I feel so sad for your loss-I'm sat here with tears in my eyes - each cat I have had and had to let go eventually has broken my heart so I can understand how you feel and it is so so painful..
she will be at peace now and playing with all her furry friends at rainbow bridge...........a big hug for you and a special hug and kiss for Marley
Angie xx

**Toothfairy*

**Toothfairy* Report 5 Jan 2008 18:24

I'm crying enough for everyone.


Don't feel right now that i'll ever stop.

LOU Xxxxxxxxxx

Lady Cutie

Lady Cutie Report 5 Jan 2008 18:31

Oh Lou,
i'm so sorry ,

(((((((((HUGS )))))))))))
for you
Hazelx

Charlie chuckles

Charlie chuckles Report 5 Jan 2008 18:33

Oh Lou,
I am so sorry.
All of mine send their love to you and yours
God bless
Carol xxx

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 5 Jan 2008 18:34

Lou, I can only send my love and deep sympathry, the pain will be so raw for you right now. When I read the post I felt it was you, even though the name confused me,

Hugs hun,


Caz xxx

**Toothfairy*

**Toothfairy* Report 5 Jan 2008 18:34

I havn't even been able to say goodbye to her...
Without going into too much detail it was the pitbull from over the road - the people there apparently 'disposed' of my beautiful girl and wern't even going to tell us...
We heard it from another neighbour....

I'm trying not to loose it completely (you wouldn't believe my restraint right now)

I'm so angry and upset as this should never have happened...
LOU XXxxxxx

Jackie

Jackie Report 5 Jan 2008 18:35

I am so sorry for your loss
((((((((((hugs))))))))))
and positive thoughts for you
Love Jackie

LesleyB

LesleyB Report 5 Jan 2008 18:35

oh Lou honey I am so sorry, I know how you feel, your heart is breaking so I am sending you loads of love and (((((((((((HUGS)))))))))) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 5 Jan 2008 18:35

Lou
no words can compensate for the loss of your Marley. It hurts like HELL. the only thing I can offer is to know that she knew such love & security with your family thats she went with all the love she could have had.
Such heartbreak when we lose them,but hopefully we know that we made their time here so much better even if they had a bad start . I cried buckets for several weeks when we lost our old guy aged 18 plus ,vowed NEVER to go thro it again cos it hurt too much. he is still very much loved & missed some ten years later but we did offer another home from the cats protection league some 18 months after him and we still have our darling Mirabelle.
I know its still too raw to go down that route but I do beleive that we can love again.

Much love to you and commiserations on your loss of a much loved puss


Shirley

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 5 Jan 2008 18:40

Lou
Sorry my response didn't see the very sad demise of Marley. I,m shocked for her & you that a pit bull was responsible for her passing Poor gal ,i so sorry she suffered that way.
What do the owners of the pit bull say, guess they wash their hands of it!!.

So sorry

Shirley

**Toothfairy*

**Toothfairy* Report 5 Jan 2008 18:44

I havn't called round there yet - i don't feel i can restrain myself to that extent...

I feel awful that i wasn't there to save her, i should have been. She probably tried to get home to us.

I Just want to hold her and tell her that i'm sorry.

She won't have been able to see him comming because of her eye and then maybe thought she'd be ok as our dogs are all soft with her....

I just want her back so badly.

LOU XXXXxxxxx

Janette

Janette Report 5 Jan 2008 18:45

Lou

I am so sorry to here of the loss of your beloved cat, and angry for you at the way she left you.

Found this

A Simple Message From Your Pet
by Ken D. Conover

To have loved and then said farewell is better than to have never loved at all.
For all of the times that you stooped and touched my head, fed me my favorite treat and
returned the love that I so unconditionally gave to you. For the care that you gave to me
so unselfishly. For all of these things I am grateful and thankful. I ask that you grieve
not for the loss but rejoice in the fact that we lived, loved and touched each other's lives.
My life was fuller because you were there, not as owner, but as my friend. Today, I am
as I was in my youth. The grass is always green, butterflies flit among fthe flowers and
the sun shines gently down upon all of God's creatures. I can run, jump and play
and do all of the things that I did in my youth. There is no sickness, no aching joints
and no regrets and no aging. We await the arrival of our lifelong companions and know
that togetherness is forever. You live in our hearts as we do in yours. Companions such
as you are very rare and unique. Don't hold the love that you have within yourself.
Give it to another like me and then I will live forever. For love never really dies,
and you are loved and missed as surely as we are.

Your pet in heaven.

sending ((((((((((((((hudgs and love ))))))))))))))))

Jan x

**Toothfairy*

**Toothfairy* Report 5 Jan 2008 18:48

I'm sorry.
I can't add to this anyomre. My eyes are raw and i can't stop crying..
Thankyou for being there for me.

LOU XXXXxxxxx

MarionfromScotland

MarionfromScotland Report 5 Jan 2008 18:52

Oh Lou.
I don't know what to say, I really feel for you.

Marion

Charlie chuckles

Charlie chuckles Report 5 Jan 2008 18:52

Maybe they can tell you were they put her so you can do what needs to be done properly. How callous can people be-it totally beggars belief
Carol xxx

Tina-Marie

Tina-Marie Report 5 Jan 2008 18:53

Lou, I'm so sorry this has happened.... it hurts so much.

((hugs))

Tina x