General Chat

Deb it just seemed to progress lol. we got together at 16 married at 20 had first child at 21 then 2nd at 23, 3rd 25, then 4th 27 lol. nice and evenly spaced :)

well girls, hate to do this but company just showed up so must run. Hate it when people drop by without calling first. LOL. Sisters are such a pain in the arse.

its not too bad really Deb its not much different to when he was here as he used to do nothing anyway lol

lol Deb chat soon :)

Debs If i hadnt of been drunk i would really have hurt myself.. not funny but thankfully i can laugh about it now.. DD, I hear what your saying, still a lot of women would stay put, does he still have a lot to do with the kids? tell me to butt out if im being nosey, and do you have a social life? i have 2 ages 13 (next month) and 11 and i couldnt see myself being free to go out (maybe because i have no family round me) Debs x

Debs, Catch you soon honey Debs x

know some men like that myself, as much as I bash hubby sometimes it's all in fun and he knows it. He is really a great guy. Been married to him for 31 year this May and dated for 2 years before that. Yea Yea I'm that old. PMSL. Anyway must run sister wants coffee, sod wont get it for herself. LOL Talk Soon

yes he is a very good dad he comes round every night when he finishes work to see them (which annoys me as i dont want to see him all the time but cant let the kids lose out) My social life is actually better as I can always call on the ex to look after the kids whenever i need him too. we are still great friends, well most of the time lol our kids are 7,5,3, and 1

awww Deb thats lovely :) ps tell your sister your busy lmao ;)

Thats good for you in one way i suppose but in the other it must be like you havent cut the strings.. good for him though still seeing the kids, my mates hubby has seen her son half a dozen times in the 3 yrs they split! debs x

yes debs it is annoying as hes always here still, but i wont cut the contact they have. hes always been a good dad to them

You must feel pretty frustrated at times though DD, I think its great he is in contact but.. bet you feel you cant win debs x

yes debs exhausted all the time :((( and no never win lol just glad i dont have to answer to him anymore lol

Freedom.. Makes a big difference doesnt it? Debs x

yes it does we have argued for so many years now all the time and just glad to be me again :)

The word freedom and me goes hand in hand dont you think? Its like i want to be me but cant.. then all of a sudden you find ME again, and its a wonderful feeling, though funny thing is not many women like to be without a man... debs x