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wisechild

wisechild Report 22 Jun 2011 14:34

Yesterday I recieved some info from a family researcher who has a family bible. I spent a couple of hours checking the info & inputting it on my Ancestry tree but didn´t have time to finish,intending to go back to it today.
This morning I recieved a message from someone who is doing a 1 name study into one of the surnames I had input, basically telling me that I wasn´t doing it as he would like it & telling me to go back through my tree & make amendments to place names etc because he prefers the Victorian spellings.
I wrote back & said that my tree was for my use & while I have no objection to other people using the info I would expect them to check it before adding it to their trees & that I would manage my tree as I choose.
Got another message this morning more or less instructing me to go back through my tree & amend all the enrtries for Birmingham from B´ham.
I´m afraid I was a bit curt in my reply, especially as,as far as I can see, he has no connection with my family & the name he has picked up on is the maiden name of one of my ancestors wives
Do you think Ancestry have started employing people to police the trees looking for spelling mistakes & typo´s?

Kuros

Kuros Report 22 Jun 2011 14:40

I'm afraid I'd tell him that it was my tree and I'll enter the information in whatever way I choose. It's up to him whether he wants to use it or not and, if the way some of it is entered offends him, then he can do his own research and enter it as he wishes.
In other words, put up or shut up.

brummiejan

brummiejan Report 22 Jun 2011 14:43

Sounds like a nutter to me (spoken in my professional nurse capacity). Obviously suffering from a severe case of nerd syndrome.

I see it has you do, what you put on your tree is your own business. You can put completely wrong info (sorry, information!!) and spell everything as you please if that is your inclination. Nobody has to look do they!

As a Brummie, I am happy with Birmingham or B'ham. If he likes things olde worlde why not wind him up by using the traditional Brummagem?! Or better still go native and abbreviate to Brum?

Jan

 Lindsey*

Lindsey* Report 22 Jun 2011 14:44

Well you can always adjust the privacy setting so he cant see what you have put !

wisechild

wisechild Report 22 Jun 2011 14:54

Jan. As an ex Brummie myself, I usually refer to it as Brum, though not on my tree obviously.
To be honest, he has no intention of accepting that anyone except him is right.
I´ve always been happy to swap info with other people & always check everything as I would expect others to do, but really I never comment on peoples spellings of names, places etc. If I think they are wrong, I input it as I want it.
Lindsey.
That´s my next move if he comes back to me again.
It was like being back at school & being told off by the teacher for the presentation of my work.
Annie.
My feelings exactly. If he wants to copy my research, fair enough, but he either accepts what I have put or amends it himself.
Marion

Potty

Potty Report 22 Jun 2011 15:14

Marion

If you click on his name on one of his messages, you can block him from contacting you.

wisechild

wisechild Report 22 Jun 2011 15:27

Thanks Potty.
I have reported him to Ancestry because I found the tone of his messages unpleasant to say the least.
Have every intention of blocking him, but am just waiting to see if he comes back to me after my query as to whether he is employed by Ancestry to police the trees.

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it

Shirley~I,m getting the hang of it Report 22 Jun 2011 17:33

Would really pee me off to get someone like that dictating,cos that is what he is doing, Sounds a real jobsworth,
What authority does he have to police peoples trees and then treat them like naughty schoolkids.That sort really gets my hackles up and I.m afraid I would tell him to s.d orf !! :-P

Braken

Braken Report 22 Jun 2011 20:09

I have to aggree with all yor replies He has nothing else to do with his sad little life but to pick on others I would say do your tree as you think fit no one has to look at it if they don't want to it's YOUR TREE TO DO AS YOU THINK FIT

Good Luck to you foget the little snake ;-)

David ‡ Mills

David ‡ Mills Report 22 Jun 2011 21:36

Am I missing something here? Surely you have to specifically grant a person access to your tree before they can see such details as the spelling of place names. Or is there some way I don't know about for someone I've never had contact with to leech all the goodies from my tree?
In the first case, just accept that there are some right wally's about, remove his access to your tree and move on.
In the second case, I'd get really worried and report it to GR as a privacy issue or hacking.
--
Dave

mgnv

mgnv Report 23 Jun 2011 02:58

I don't think Ancestry have started employing people to police the trees looking for spelling mistakes & typo´s. No doubt he appointed himself to that role.

moonbi

moonbi Report 23 Jun 2011 03:35

just a little aside

I found that when importing a gedcom into family tree maker
there were many place names that were highlighted as errors and unknown places. when I fixed the SPELLING as the program required, the reports all printed out effortlessly.

Could it be that this chap, wants to import your info and then print it out; but is too lazy to do the fixing himself; that the program requires?
thats if he IS using FTM.

either that or he is a spelling bee champion, as well as compulsive obsessive.
as my mum would say "just let it go in one ear, and out the other"

wisechild

wisechild Report 23 Jun 2011 07:17

As far as I´m aware, public trees on Ancestry can be viewed by any members. I don´t have to give specific permission.
I like to keep my tree public as I tend to get more response from researchers following my family. I´m perfectly happy for them to extract info, but what they see is what they get. If they want it differently it´s up to them to amend it.
I´m equally happy for others to advise me if my info is wrong, so that I can check and amend it where necessary.
As I have never had problems with spelling in my life (well, not often) I object to his attitude. How would he react to someome who genuinely does have problems. Is he implying that their info is inferior.?
Have had a reply from Ancestry saying that I need to refer the complaint to a different section.
Would have thought they could just pass it on. It went to Customer services because the report abuse button wasn´t working.

TootyFruity

TootyFruity Report 23 Jun 2011 07:53

Nobody has the right to tell you how to enter the information on your tree. I tend to enter it as it appears on the census which also contains abbreviations.

It is also up to him to enter information into his tree as he sees fit. I think I would say I prefer my way so perhaps it is he that should be amending the entries to my way to keep the equilibrium.

wisechild

wisechild Report 23 Jun 2011 08:05

Good thinking Tooty Fruity!!

Ken

Ken Report 23 Jun 2011 10:19

If he (or she) is a member of the Guild Of One Name Studies then report them to the guild if you feel annoyed.

Ken (G.O.O.N.S)

moonbi

moonbi Report 23 Jun 2011 10:34

attitude

quote

"because he prefers the Victorian spellings"

unquote

enough said?

wisechild

wisechild Report 23 Jun 2011 13:44

Ken.
No idea if he is a member of GOONS. He just said he was doing a one name study into the surname I entered.!!
Can´t see that he has a tree on Ancestry unless it´s a private one so that no one can criticise it.

Moonbi.
That puzzled me a bit. Even if he doesn´t like modern spellings, how does he cope with pre Victorian ones?

moonbi

moonbi Report 9 Sep 2011 03:01

even though I am an aussie,
I still know that residents of Birmingham are often referred to as Brummies

is that not so?

brummiejan

brummiejan Report 9 Sep 2011 07:03

It certainly is!