General Chat

...alfie???What's all these threads about lists of who to talk to and who not to?....I can't be bovvered to read through 'em, so tell me in brief! I have a list of who not to talk to....but it's my own list which tends to consist of those who constantly have a go at me because I talk to others that they don't like. There are also those who I may not talk to for a couple of days/weeks because we've got the 'ump with each other, but it doesn't last forever. But at the end of the day I make up my mind who I talk to and nobody else can do it for me!

In short my view is anyone that thinks you have no brain and cant decide for yourself who you can talk to and who you dont want to is pathetic.

No one was named and shamed so they had glory by association if that makes sence.

I thnk they are just loosers who it appears used to PM people with a list.

I hope I am on it cos I think they are sad and delusional.

here here maddie:)

jetxx

Hiya Maddie.....that could explain why I've never been sent THE list then (if it exists) cos I can decide for meself! lol

i am not really sure what has happened.... but a while ago i was scared off(.. i am rather new at this) by remarks made to me and others,,, and it does make you feel awful but i think that i now know who is o'k and the majority are....but it is not nice when just because you are chattin about day to day things that some people can be so nasty.. i had some loverly pm's off people that i decided too stick it out..xxx.xx

I wish people wouldn't delete posts like that....it makes me wonder if what they said was so bad they had to remove it! lol

Hiya Skeggy.....I'm sure you're quite capable of deciding for yourself who you want to talk to. I certainly wouldn't discriminate against you unless you did or said summat terrible to me personally. Make your own mind up is what I say!

hi skeggy:)

i will talk to who i want :)

jetx

sorry it was me who deleted my post came up twice..... dont know why????...xxxx

who's deleted?

Are you on wireless Skeggy....it happens to me if I've got a bad connection....or if this site is running slow

i do hope nothing i have ever said has offended anyone... but saying that if i do read some ones thread and i dont like what they are chattin about i just dont post,,,,,xxxxx

no i am on main comp but it has done it too me a couple of times tonight dont know if it is anything to do with traffic jams and page can not be displayed??? who knows??xxx

I think it probably is....it's annoying me so much I'm off to bed!

Night night xx

yes me too!!! ARGHHHHHH it has been drivein me mad....xxx

er... have we kicked off again?

ho hum..

Hi Jeanetta :)))) xxx

Hello Jeanette

People have been going on about this for ages but I've never believed it really cos I've never had anyone tell me not to speak to anyone - I just had one pm warning me about someone once and it was years ago - I just said bugger off, I can think for myself.

Like you, I have a mental list of people I prefer to avoid cos I wouldn't mix with them in the real world. In my case it's getting bigger every day lol

Morning Jeanette:))

Theres probably a list going round of who it is who it is that someone thinks sent a list, yaers ago.

Why the bloomin eck not just say I was sent a list by so and so was you sent the same, oh no that wouldn't be so dramatic would it, sorry:))


There are people on her who I would never enter a conversation with, but there not on written list, they are to insignificant to write about. But at least I'm honest about it.

If anyone did send a list to you, would you care? No nor would I.

Why wasn't I sent a list ?

I'm so upset now, and feel so left out. :o)))

Seriously, there has always been a rumour of a list but I've never seen one, nor created one either.

Again, I've also got a mental list of people who I wish to avoid (we all cant get on with everyone) and I will do my level best to avoid them.( I think many of us have some sort of mental list who we wish to avoid, even though not everyone who does will say so publicly, which is their prerogative)

Hopefully with the site changes it may have brought safer and happier posting with it.

So I will have to give it a chance.

E x

I have never heard of it but some of the stuff that has gone round...!!!

I have probably missed it anyway (hand goes over top of head) and often accidentally ignore people

I get distracted you see, stopping the children from dismembering each other inside the house (it is not so messy outside, I can hose the blood away!) and stopping the big cat from rogering his little brother cat who now has a permanent nervous tick.

It's a jolly life.

It's post like yours Abigal, that make all the dodgy talk on here, sail into the oblivion.

Rogering his brother I ask you LOL :))))

LYnda