General Chat

linda if people have changed there mind about you and are surprised its there loss, you are a lovely warm friendly person who suffers enough in the real world with being got at on here , you spoke your mind which you are entitled too, and gave an opinion, hayley again i agree with you i find my self often seeing my friends having a difference of opinion thats what makes us friends , yike can you imagine how borrrrrrrrrrring it would be if we all agreed yikes id have to go and talk to my pusses

Puss your a gem Take Care hope you feel better tommorow I know Catherine will look after you Linda xx

Hiya Jac ......Of course everyones opinions differ on what is a goading thread ? Some times they can be called thinly vailed comments. Linda just read your post .....I still think your a very open and honest person ...:))))))))

I have pm'd Linda about this but want to make it known on here that I was not referring to her in my post on this thread.

Thats the point I was trying to make Hayley - one man's meat is another man's poison, as they say. EG - if I see a thread posted by some one I know, like and respect no matter what the title of the thread, I dont immediately think 'goading thread' - I just accept it for what it and probably add to it, as I'm sure you do, So if that's the case, then why are any threads perceived to be 'goading threads'? Do you see where I'm coming from? Jac

Yes Jac totally....

To me goading threads are those that, by their very title invite...nay DARE certain people to post, so that it can be said they had come on the thread to stir.

Hi Jan - I know what you mean, but surely if I posted a thread entitled (for example) 'Will all short, fat, hairy redheads sign in here' it wouldnt be seen as goading? (By the way it adequately describes me and I probably would be the only person to sign in - lol) It would be meant in a light hearted manner, like for instance a lot of Hoff's threads (sorry to mention you Hoff, but you came to mind instantly and it's no reflection on you - you are merely used as an example - I hope its ok). The problem is as I see it, suspicion and whilst ever there is suspicion there will be strife. Jac

Jac if you remove the redheads i shall glading sign in...

hiya, i said it earleir we need smillies on this forum, then others can see how the content writen is ...happy sad angry .... my sky is playin up and went down yest, so im not able to comment on what was goin on .....sorry.. just wish people would stop bickering , i go on me football forum dailly and dont get anything like that there...... but we have smillies.. and chill out zones, now theres a thought, kaz. x

Well said TW All week I have been on here but not posted......Just sat back and watched which is always the best way for me otherwise my big gob would really let rip. As for ignoring some peeps........yes I do .........and no I won't say who........but I do because once you sit back and watch for a couple of days you soon realise who to stay clear of and exactly what their GAME is. Maddie

Added by ₪Teresa W₪ on 26/07/2007 18:20:13 To me goading threads are those that, by their very title invite...nay DARE certain people to post, so that it can be said they had come on the thread to stir. Good definition but then again sometimes people do go on those very threads just to stir. It's six of one and half a dozen of the other at times.

*** sits ignored by Maddie **

******thankgod Hayley has finally took the hint ******* lol

*** rushes of thread in floods of tears **

..........and of course what one person would consider a goading thread title another person wouldn't. apologies if I'm repeating what someone has said but I'm popping in and out and trying to cook tea at same time.

one down only another 1267 to get off the general board- lol,

Linda love,ta for PM , You are a lovely caring lady, one of the best, Caz xxxxx

Thank you Caz You are lovely to Linda xx

Hi Shirley-Ann I'm a bit puzzled by your comment '4 good/fun people have left g/r this week because of the snide comments made to them by a certain individuals/gang' my understanding was that Lynn left after pm's from unknown members, SB had a disagreement with someone (not sure if it is sorted, but have seen her posting again), Moo because she was fed up with the trouble on here (seen her posting today too, which is good), can't think who the other was. So I don't think there is any gang or strategy involved here - different reasons for each of them. Unless you know something else of course :-) Maz. XX