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Wendy Take care ,my love to you Margaret xxx

Dear Wendy, Of course you are grateful for the 2 you have but why should that stop you grieving for this one or any of the others that you have lost. Each is an individual and you will feel the loss of each just as much. Thinking of you today. Love and hugs, Jacky xx

My thoughts will be with you today and in the coming weeks. Take a little strength from all the people here, to cope with the heartache. Love, Elisabeth xx

Wendy So sorry to hear such sad news. It doesn't matter how many children we have, the loss of a child is devastating. Thinking of you and wishing you well. Sue

An Angel Never Dies Don't let them say I wasn't born, That something stopped my heart I felt each tender squeeze you gave, I've loved you from start. Although my body you can't hold, It doesn't mean I'm gone, This world was worthy not of me, God chose that I move on. I know the pain that drowns your soul, What you are forced to face. You have my word, I'll fill your arms, Someday we will embrace. You'll hear that it was 'meant to be God doesn't make mistakes,' But that won't soften your worst blow, Or make your heart not ache. I'm watching over all you do, Another child you'll bear, Believe me when I say to you, That I am always there. There will come a time, I promise you When you will hold my hand, Stroke my face and kiss my lips, And you'll understand. Although I've never breathed your air, Or gazed into your eyes That doesn't mean I never 'was' An angel never dies. Really sorry that you have been through this so many times! My thoughts are with you today....Bev

There is nothing I can say that will make you feel better. All I can do is hope that being in hospital is not too awful. It is difficult to know why it is easier to cope with a baby who was never conceived than a baby who died during pregnancy. I lost a baby myself but when my friend lost her IVF baby last year that seemed worse by magnitudes to me. You suffer because you loved him. He was lucky to be loved and though you might not have changed nappies etc, you were the best mother in the world to him. I am thinking of you and hope you are back at home soon. Love Abigail

Wendy, no matter how many children you have, be it 2,3,4 or 5, its this baby and the joy his/her life would have brought you,that you grieve for. Time will ease your pain. My thoughts are with you.

Wendy, I'm so sorry to read your news and hope you recover soon. It obviously wasn't meant to be. Love to you and your family, CB >|< XX

Oh darling, I feel for you so much. Sending lots of love and a great big hug. Jack xx

My thoughts are with you Wendy. God bless. Jo.X

Wendy I feel for you - I lost four babies and even though I have two beautiful children, they can in no way take away the feeling of complete loss you are experiencing. I am sending you a big hug and please email if you ever need to just 'talk'.

babe, you are in my thoughts!

Thinking of you. Maggie

Thinking of you Wendy Heather xx

Wendy, I am so sorry. I too lost a baby. I had a scan at 13 weeks and was told my baby had died a few weeks earlier. Like you I went on to have 2 beautiful healthy children for which I am trully blessed but nothing will ever make me forget my first baby. I send you all my thoughts and love and if you ever need to talk please send me a message. Thinking of you. sarah xxx

Wendy you have my deepest sympathy.My daughter in law had a scan in November she was 20 weeks and was told her baby was dead.It was their first.We were all broken hearted.She had to endure a labour it was very difficult and we are still grieving

Wendy I to had a miscarriage 13yrs ago but I have never went through what you have but my best friend I have known since I was 5yrs old has went through the same she has got 2 children to but she told me it doesn't take away the pain of wanting and losing them I have 4 kids and 1 miscarriage but don't have your problems I hope they can find out what is wrong as they found out she couldn't carry them. I am going to light a candle for you to give you strength god bless you

Hi Sorry for your loss. Hope you have no problems today. Thoughts & prayers are with you Penny

i really do feel for you at this sad time, i too had a miscarraige a few years ago, at 14 weeks i lost twins. there isn't much anyone can say to you at this time. take time for yourself after all that has gone on. my thoughts are with you

Dear Wendy....i am thinking of you at this difficult time. I can understand how you are feeling having been in a similar situation.