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My heart is breaking...
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Glenys the Menace! | Report | 25 Feb 2005 14:01 |
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Wendy, I really feel for you. I lost 2 babies myself through (early) miscarriage, in the mid and late 90's, and even now it's still there a bit. One thing that helped me - and it helped a lot - is that Bob and I gave both babies unisex names so that they had identities, and put their names down in a remembrance book at our local church and hospice. So they weren't just 'babies I have lost', they were babies with names. Does that make sense? I think of Baby Jo and Baby Lee now and then. Will be thinking of you tomorrow. Take care now, God bless, and hug your two lovely children for me. Glenys x |
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POSITIVE Pauline | Report | 25 Feb 2005 13:56 |
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Wendy My thoughts go out to you. I suffered 4 miscarriages before having 2 healthy girls, so I can understand the trauma you are going through. The only way I coped was to say that it was natures way of getting rid of one which perhaps would have been seriously disabled in some way. I hope you will find strength in your family, and in the messages of support here. God bless you and yours. Pauline |
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Stephanie | Report | 25 Feb 2005 13:47 |
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oh wendy, i am so sorry. Of course you love your kiddies to bits, but of course it will hurt! we are all here for you Wendy, its awful what you have had to go through! thinking of you hun xxxx |
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Helen in Berkshire | Report | 25 Feb 2005 13:44 |
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Wendy I am so sorry for your loss. Sending positive thoughts and prayers for comfort and strength. Love Helen |
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Karen | Report | 25 Feb 2005 11:09 |
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Wendy I am so sorry to hear you sad news. heres a big hug all the way from sunny Kent ((((( HUGS ))))))))) Karen x |
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Emma | Report | 25 Feb 2005 11:03 |
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Dear Wendy....i am thinking of you at this difficult time. I can understand how you are feeling having been in a similar situation. |
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Clare | Report | 25 Feb 2005 10:28 |
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i really do feel for you at this sad time, i too had a miscarraige a few years ago, at 14 weeks i lost twins. there isn't much anyone can say to you at this time. take time for yourself after all that has gone on. my thoughts are with you |
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♫ Penny € | Report | 25 Feb 2005 10:23 |
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Hi Sorry for your loss. Hope you have no problems today. Thoughts & prayers are with you Penny |
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Val | Report | 25 Feb 2005 10:17 |
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Wendy I to had a miscarriage 13yrs ago but I have never went through what you have but my best friend I have known since I was 5yrs old has went through the same she has got 2 children to but she told me it doesn't take away the pain of wanting and losing them I have 4 kids and 1 miscarriage but don't have your problems I hope they can find out what is wrong as they found out she couldn't carry them. I am going to light a candle for you to give you strength god bless you |
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Battenburg | Report | 25 Feb 2005 10:09 |
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Wendy you have my deepest sympathy.My daughter in law had a scan in November she was 20 weeks and was told her baby was dead.It was their first.We were all broken hearted.She had to endure a labour it was very difficult and we are still grieving |
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Sarah | Report | 25 Feb 2005 09:39 |
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Wendy, I am so sorry. I too lost a baby. I had a scan at 13 weeks and was told my baby had died a few weeks earlier. Like you I went on to have 2 beautiful healthy children for which I am trully blessed but nothing will ever make me forget my first baby. I send you all my thoughts and love and if you ever need to talk please send me a message. Thinking of you. sarah xxx |
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Heather | Report | 25 Feb 2005 09:38 |
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Thinking of you Wendy Heather xx |
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Margaret | Report | 25 Feb 2005 09:35 |
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Thinking of you. Maggie |
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PinkDiana | Report | 25 Feb 2005 09:29 |
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babe, you are in my thoughts! |
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Kate | Report | 25 Feb 2005 09:28 |
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Wendy I feel for you - I lost four babies and even though I have two beautiful children, they can in no way take away the feeling of complete loss you are experiencing. I am sending you a big hug and please email if you ever need to just 'talk'. |
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Fairy | Report | 25 Feb 2005 09:21 |
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My thoughts are with you Wendy. God bless. Jo.X |
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Jack (Sahara) | Report | 25 Feb 2005 09:03 |
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Oh darling, I feel for you so much. Sending lots of love and a great big hug. Jack xx |
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Unknown | Report | 25 Feb 2005 09:02 |
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Wendy, I'm so sorry to read your news and hope you recover soon. It obviously wasn't meant to be. Love to you and your family, CB >|< XX |
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Haribo | Report | 25 Feb 2005 09:00 |
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Wendy, no matter how many children you have, be it 2,3,4 or 5, its this baby and the joy his/her life would have brought you,that you grieve for. Time will ease your pain. My thoughts are with you. |
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Abigail | Report | 25 Feb 2005 08:36 |
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There is nothing I can say that will make you feel better. All I can do is hope that being in hospital is not too awful. It is difficult to know why it is easier to cope with a baby who was never conceived than a baby who died during pregnancy. I lost a baby myself but when my friend lost her IVF baby last year that seemed worse by magnitudes to me. You suffer because you loved him. He was lucky to be loved and though you might not have changed nappies etc, you were the best mother in the world to him. I am thinking of you and hope you are back at home soon. Love Abigail |
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