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Joan Palmer

Joan Palmer Report 27 Feb 2005 02:08

Wendy, my heart goes out to you, I can’t begin to imagine how you must be feeling. I wish I could say something that would make you feel better, but words fail me at the moment. Thinking of you and sending you a ((hug)) Joan x

Denise

Denise Report 27 Feb 2005 00:48

Hi Wendy,My heart goes out to you right now,I was 6 months pregnant and it was valentines day when I found out my baby was dead,I delivered her the next day,but before her I had 3 boys last one born with strep b and has had lots of health problems,my little girl just wasn't meant to be.My thoughts are with you,and also your partner people don't always think of the man but my husband has never got over it either,and my children talk of her as their sister,I know its hard but talk to people I didn't and ended up having a breakdown,its good to talk if you want to talk I'll be here to listen.Best Wishes Denise.

Saffron

Saffron Report 27 Feb 2005 00:18

love to you and your family wendy i cant imagine how you're feeling,just wanted to let you know you're not alone. i also have miscarried and know how hard it can be. if you ever need a chat email me leanne x

Lisa

Lisa Report 27 Feb 2005 00:01

hello i hope your feeling a bit better today i have been thinking about you allday i just wanted to say if you want to chat just send email lisa

Unknown

Unknown Report 26 Feb 2005 10:48

Wendy I feel for you. I am so glad you have two healthy children, I have two healthy boys as well, but my first pregnancy ended in miscarriage. It was a very depressing time, you are all geared up to have a baby and start thinking about names etc and then your hopes are dashed. Your acute grief will pass, but you will always remember what might have been. I was very upset after my miscarriage and thought nothing would ever work out again, but if I had had that first baby I wouldn't have had my lovely son William. My mother-in-law's first baby died at 2 minutes' old and she had to wait 5 years before she gave birth to my husband. Then she had to wait another 5 before his brother. She wanted more children but had to have a hysterectomy. She always wanted a daughter and when I started going out with her son she told me I was the daughter she would have chosen! So enjoy your children and the other children that have been, are in or will be in your life. Take care. nell

Yvette

Yvette Report 26 Feb 2005 10:36

Wendy I am so sorry to hear about your baby, i have been in a similar situation when i lost a much wanted miracle baby achieved through fertility treatment at 9 weeks so i know how your heart is breaking. Nothing will make it easier but i am sitting here thinking of you and hurting with you, wishing i had the words to help. Try and take comfort from your family, and look after yourself Yvette

Lisa

Lisa Report 25 Feb 2005 22:45

wendy my heart is breaking for you that has to be one off the sadest thing iv herd in a long time i had a friend who had the same problem she could not carry girls she felt the same she should be greatful for boys and she was but her heart brok every time becase it wos all ways girls she never give up on hope love and loards of hugs lisa ps if you need a friend ill allways be here

Lisa

Lisa Report 25 Feb 2005 22:38

wendy my darling my heart does really go out to you .you have suffered alot through your miscarriages which has left you heartbroken.cannot understand what you are going through due to this but sending you my love and hugs at this differcult time and sending a prayer to all your little babies up there in heaven who were taken away to be with god.love and hugs to all you little ones and to youxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx):

*Tracy

*Tracy Report 25 Feb 2005 22:34

Wendy so sorry for your loss will be thinking of you tomorrow take care Tracy x

Rosi Glow

Rosi Glow Report 25 Feb 2005 21:33

Im so sorry to hear this, god bless you.

Bren from Oldham

Bren from Oldham Report 25 Feb 2005 20:01

So sorry to hear your sad news Wendy Love Bren

Debs

Debs Report 25 Feb 2005 19:58

Wendy, So sad to hear your news. I lost a baby (my son's twin) at 20 weeks and although I have been blessed with two beautiful children, I still think of the one I lost. Know that you and your family are in all our thoughts. Take care. Thinking of you, Debs

Kirsty

Kirsty Report 25 Feb 2005 19:12

Thinking of you, especially tomorrow. My Love and prayers are with you. luv Kirsty xxx ((( hug)))

Speedy

Speedy Report 25 Feb 2005 18:49

Wendy there is nothing I can say to ease the pain you are going through, so I will send you some ((((((BIG HUGS)))))), I hope you will be ok. Bev

Patricia

Patricia Report 25 Feb 2005 15:05

Wendy. I am so sorry to hear your sad news. My heart goes out to you. I will be thinking of you tomorrow. Love Pat xx

LindaMcD

LindaMcD Report 25 Feb 2005 14:59

Bless you Wendy, those of us that have lost a child know how you feel. Thinking of you. Linda x

Deanna

Deanna Report 25 Feb 2005 14:43

I am so sorry to hear that you have lost your baby Wendy. Ofcourse you are grateful for the two you have, but each baby is a NEW little soul. An individual and deserving of all the love in the world. You have a right to grieve Wendy. God Bless Deanna (((((x))))))

Unknown

Unknown Report 25 Feb 2005 14:38

Hi Wendy - l am so sorry this has happened to you. l have not had the same problems so don't fully understand what you are going through. Please relax and rest when you get home and try and keep your chin up and THINK POSITIVE . Jude sarf wales xx

Sue

Sue Report 25 Feb 2005 14:32

Wendy I'm so sorry to hear of you and your family's loss. Sending you all a (((((big hug))))) Sue xx.

Jan

Jan Report 25 Feb 2005 14:10

Wendy, I am so sorry for your loss. Can't possibly imagine what you are feeling. My thoughts are with you. Luv Jan