General Chat

Donna - If I knew where he was I would!!!! I know he went to Uni in Colchester and have researched (check their site, friendsreunited etc) but can't find anything!! Becx

GOOD WILL BE THINKING OF YOU, YOU COULD ALWAYS GO AND SEE HIM IF HE IS NEAR DONNA

POSTED IT! Thank you Donna, Debs, Peter Pan, Paul, Lucia, Lin and Cas! All I can do is wait now... will keep you all updated! love becx

HI BEC YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T CONTACT HIM YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO MOVE ON YOUS ARE BOTH OLDER NOW I HOPE IT WORKS OUT FOR YOU, KEEP US ALL UPTO DATE GOOD LUCK DONNA

If you don,t do this Bec you will never know what would become of it? Good Luck. Debs xx.

Bec, I haven't read all the replies, just your original post but I don't see where the dilemma is. Get in touch. If he's not single.. then at least you've got in touch with an old friend again. If you go for it, and it doesn't work out.. what have you lost ? it's not like you've still been in touch. I fyou don't try then you'll always wonder. Go for it - in the words of a song I like a lot... 'take all your chances while you can, you never know when they'll pass you by'. Paul

Let me know if you get a reply :-) Lucia

my 1st love grew up in the same village and both of us still live here (in different houses mind). I still see him from time to time, his mum always says hello to me when I see her down the village. All this is making me feel old now lol. Sarah, xx

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Thanks Kirsty! I'll do it :-) Love becx

Post it bec you'll know one way or the other then . Ihope it works out for you. love kirsty :)))

Thanks Sarah Letter is now written, enveloped and stamped.. am off out shortly and will post it :-S WIll keep you updated Love becx <HUG>

Hi Bec, go on send the letter you've got nothing to lose have you, like someone has already said the ball will be in his court then. At least you'll have an answer either way, hope all goes ok hun, keep your chin up and keep smiling. Sarah, :) xx

Oh Karen What a lovely thing to do... i really thought you were going to say you lived happily ever after... :-( Well this guy M, he probably won't reply. I've texted a friend who is close to M and he said he doesn't want to know but Im hoping a letter with my contact details may give him that push! Fingers crossed Becx

Hi Bec Only just seen your dilemma. So glad to hear your sending the letter :-) When I was at infant school there was a boy in my class, Michael, who was my 'kinda' boyfriend (I was only about 7!) and I remember us passing notes back and forth between the two of us and I remember us promising to have at least 2 children. Anyway, 13 years ago I bumped into Michael again, he was working with my best mate so quite often I would pop into her workplace and if she wasnt about I would sit chatting to him, anyway he asked me out, but I turned him down as I had just started seeing someone. 8 years later I broke up with the bloke that I turned Michael down for after I found out he was a cheating on me, and all I could think of was 'what if I hadnt turned Michael down', anyway 3 months later I plucked up the corruge to do something about it, I worked in a Building Society at the time and Michael's parents had an account with us, so I wrote a letter to his parents advising them of a new savings account that they might be interested in and at the end I put 'PS, say Hi to Michael for me, we used to go to school together and it would be great to catch up sometime', I made sure that I signed the letter Miss, just so he knew I wasnt married :-) Anyway, I never heard from him, but at least I tried, I still think 'what if' but hay! nothing ventured, nothing gained! :-) Sorry for the rambings, good luck and keep us informed Karen x

Thanks Bev What a lovely story...becx

I think what you have written is perfect...GO FOR IT!!!!!! Emma xx

Note is in addressed envelope Wendy! Will post it shortly... Becx :-S

Write to him. If you don't, you'll always wondering what might have happened if you had. What's the worst that can happen. He doesn't reply. So, at least you tried. Nothing venture, nothing gained. Go for it Baby Bec Wendy xXx

Ok... <bec gulps nervously>