General Chat

grandpas not the reciever is he, i can only think of bendy wendy or diana and i know they wouldnt take no rubbish off someone, sorry ladys no offence but i know youd stand up to a bully or i think you would, s..t this is digging me a hole yer what im trying to say is there are so many respected people on here, but i havent seen jim since i bin on here tonight just spit it out jess im getting myself in a muddle yer trying to chat, who left and whose fault is it :-)

i can't tell you who has sent them ... and there is more than one person we think....

JESS HAVE YOU TOLD GR??? yes I know I'm shouting Margaret

Jess i am quite happy to be suspended, if you mail me whos been upset and who sent it i'll put it on the board, i'm not afraid to stand up for the decent people on here, and i'm sure alot of others would happily do the same to stop it sandra

Margaret, why would Jess get suspended for naming them?

Jess I say name the person who has sent the nasty message. It is about time something is done about this once and forall. I think we have a few trouble makers on here,if i received a nasty message i would not hesitate to put there name up for all to see. Val ptfg

Jess, I hope they stay, when i thought about leaving because someone had been funny with me all the lovelly people on this site posted there support and i decided to stay. Now tell your friend , they are not worth it and they obviously dare not come out in the open. Guve your friend our love and BEG them to stay, lol

Margaret and others, I have done, and so has she, This cruel bully has caused her to question her belief in mankind jess

hi again jess, the membership numbers will give them away, wont they ?

Thanks for thinking I am held in high regard, but it isn't me. I have been sorting out some new info on my IoW Ancestors. Jess, if you can't name the culprit on the thread can you send me a private message? Jim

Eagles Because that is part of the rules. Other members have been suspended for copy and pasting abusive emails from others Wrong in my opinion, but thats the way it works Margaret

Jess PM me - I'll name them for you if you don't want to.

hi, just had a thought- its not a follow on from the trouble at the weekend is it ???

I think it is the cowards way out to abuse someone through private emails as the individual concerned knows that they will not be named and shamed for fear of repurcussions.... that to me is a sure sign of a bully! Generally bullies are nothing more than cowards! Jess I hope you can convince our friend to stay on the site as he or she should not be made to feel they have to leave! Whoever has sent these messages should be ashamed of themselves...Bev

Jess i,m with Sandra on this one send me the name and i,ll put it up on here as well. Val ptfg

Julie Anne - that's really kind of you but it's not me.

I suspect GR would suspend on defamation of character, theres something in the rules about it.

I would guess that it isnt just one person. Maybe one person so far has sent the message, but there may be others supplying the ammo and letting others fire the bullets. Margaret

it's so sad when a site meant for adults becames a childrens playground. these people need to grow up and leave the nice members on here alone, i have only been on this site for 2 weeks and have already meet lots of friendly ,helpful people but i have also seen the few children on this site. PLEASE GROW UP

Send us all the name(s) Jess, we'll all post it then we can all be suspended. If I ever get one I'll cut and paste the whole thing, whatever the consequences might be. Jan