General Chat

Grandma said as much to me that her losing her son hurt more than me losing my Daddy!! Like you can measure the pain???? I think Mum's need to think very carefully what they say now!! Help break the cycle!! xx

Why is it always mums?is it because we love them so much , they can hurt us twice as bad as anybody else, Gill

I was a policeman for thirty years so some terrible things were said to me. A frequently asked question which used to annoy me was when you were called out ( a lot in those days). to disputes between husband and wife. I was single for a few years, and the question was always ' are you married?'. 'No' well what the blankety blank do you know about it? Happy days

Not to me but to a very good friend. She was 14, and came home from Boarding School to find her parents had moved house. When she eventually tracked them down, she rang the bell and her mother stood on the doorsetp and said 'What can I do for you Sue'?

Someone accused me of being rascist. Something I am not, and I absolutly HATE! I could have poked their eyes out! lol To be honest though, the person who said it, wasn't the most intelligent person in the world, and I doubt she even knew what it meant! lol.

I woulnd't want to repeat it on here, but it was from an ex-member of this site. It played upon my worst experiences, something this person should not have known about anyway, and twisted it into something truly evil. What a nasty piece of work - and the person who'd told tales too.

Just over a year ago my Mum texted me and said she'd be watching Brat Camp and that the children on there reminded her of me. I was never that bad but what really hurt was that she knew I was at Gaynor's funeral at the time and she still sent it! We're getting on better now.

Hi Christine mine goes in total denial if you say anything after and accuses me of telling lies.even if someone else says you did say that ,he'll the fly off the handle saying everone else is lying

'You have ruined my life and shown not one shred of remorse' Said by my mother some years ago and still hurts every day. Because she takes this view she does not know either of her grandchildren or my lovely husband. Also she does not know that I have now rumbled the fact that everything she ever told me about the family was completely untrue! Sheila

Muffy, thats heartbreaking! BIG HUG!

Every time I was told 'sorry we can't detect any heartbeat' at my twelve week scans. :0(

I would have said when my mother told me at about age 8 that she never wanted me but no, being told there was nothing they could do for my lovely man, was the worst ever. Vivienne

My mum said to me she wishes she had stop at one kid, she must have thought she was being nice as i am the oldest but it wasn't, made me feel uncomfortable! (i have 2 younger brothers)

My husband the type to moan an row a lot and everything he says really hurts but he dos'nt see anything wrong with saying these things,so cant say just one thing,because by tommorow he's forgot or denies it,and starts all over again

My Ex telling me he didn't love me anymore - and the reasons he gave !!!! *elbows Jill out of the way in queue for Diana's brother*

LittleJewels - not silly at all!! xxx

This is gonna sound a bit daft at first but my mum saying 'I waited till you were all grown up till I left!' I was 9 or 10 when she went! Julie xxx

My mother said to me and my sister and two brothers,'If i had my way i would never have had any of you'. This was said on many occasions and you can imagine the feelings that ran through us. Vanessa

Oh Christine.... why do they have to be so wicked? The mother here is unbelievable in her lies and evilness (if that's a word) xx

oh good diana!!! ta very much!!! lolol my ex mother in law is horrible so it may be one in the same inded!!! pmsl