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You reap what you sow...

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Unknown

Unknown Report 7 May 2006 18:21

Elaine I've already beat you to it hun. Can I always ask why you bring personal disagreements onto a public forum ? This was a difference of opinion between ourselves and not for public consumption. Clare (without the i) PS. Actually Elaine don't answer that ... as I said before it was a personal disagreement and private it should stay.

Linen

Linen Report 7 May 2006 18:20

I'd still like to know what I've done. VIvienne xx

Unknown

Unknown Report 7 May 2006 18:19

Bec Until you have children of your own I don't think you can comment. Some mistakes are really small but the heartache that goes with them is huge. Really good people have made mistakes and paid the ultimate price. Clare

Unknown

Unknown Report 7 May 2006 18:19

Yes people with children that make mistakes are no different to those who don't... I have made mistakes,one in paticular i am not proud of,but i am a good mum,and will live with my mistake for the rest of my life.

ஐ+*¨^¨*+e+*¨^¨*+ஐ Mildred Honkinbottom

ஐ+*¨^¨*+e+*¨^¨*+ஐ Mildred Honkinbottom Report 7 May 2006 18:18

Claire Please do not send me any more PMs through genes If I recieve any more belittiling me for spelling your name wrong when I answered you, calling me and another member names and in fact any more emails at all, I will send them all to abuse I will not be harrassed by you All I did was answer your thread, mentioning your story was familier and deja vous. I then added again saying SNAP when Id realised another member had said the same. Ive had seven emails from you now no 8, anothers just arrived five minutes after your last I will be sending them to abuse now Elaine

Bec

Bec Report 7 May 2006 18:15

Clare - I'll answer your question with another question. Do people who do such things that affect their children deserve to have children? xx

Deanna

Deanna Report 7 May 2006 18:14

Nice point Bec. Deanna X

Unknown

Unknown Report 7 May 2006 18:13

But Bec would that include little children who have no idea about the bigger world ? Do innocent children deserve the backlash from their parents behaviour ? Cx

Bec

Bec Report 7 May 2006 18:11

But in some cases, if some people received all the grief they deserved.... then it'd affect their close family/friends anyway? Ultimately, 'You reap what you sow' is a good motto to live by. I don't (deliberately) do things to hurt people... and hope to have a happy life as a result :0)

Unknown

Unknown Report 7 May 2006 18:06

no no no.... xxxx

Bev

Bev Report 7 May 2006 18:06

clare that depends on the mistakes love sometimes it is innocent parties that get hurt in the backlash

Unknown

Unknown Report 7 May 2006 18:04

Just general ..... If I make mistakes (which I've done countless times ... am learning though), is it OK for my loved ones to be punished ? Clare.x

Deanna

Deanna Report 7 May 2006 18:03

at this present moment I WANT TO BELIEVE.... I really do. Deanna X

Unknown

Unknown Report 7 May 2006 18:02

See I agree but other members on here seem to think its OK for others to suffer because of your own mistakes. cx

Bev

Bev Report 7 May 2006 18:02

are we talking general here? or specifics if the latter what have i missed???

Bec

Bec Report 7 May 2006 18:02

Maybe sowers should think before they sow whether their loved ones will also reap the result? I'd never advocate innocent people being threatened or harmed by the way.

Unknown

Unknown Report 7 May 2006 18:01

Certainly not....

Unknown

Unknown Report 7 May 2006 17:59

As we're all feeling so philosophical do we feel that the loved ones of those who sow deserve to reap ? Clare.x

Bec

Bec Report 7 May 2006 17:52

Elaine - Mud sticks? lol xx

Unknown

Unknown Report 7 May 2006 17:50

I really hope so Bec