General Chat

You go girl !!! A good cry works wonders, you obviously need to with everything you're going through at the moment. However you might need to see Doc at some point they will help you. After all we all like to think we're superhuman but at the end of the day we are only human. Sending lots of ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Claire xxx

Jenny Whats happened is that you had to 'just get on with it' for your children so you havent been properly able to grieve for your husband and now this has opened up all the feelings that you put away in the past! Its like opening a box that has been put away!

Jenny there is nothing wrong in sat there having a good old cry-I can't say I blame you. This must bring back painful memories for you and it's only natural these feeling have come to surface-you wouldn't be human if they didn't. Is there anyone you can contact a support group that deals with terminally ill people, forgive me but I have never had experience of this, I just thought it might help-I'm sure there are lots of people on here that can talk things through with you. sending you my warmes wishes for you and your family. catherine xx

You are human Jenny,with a loving caring nature, The pain of watching someone that you love suffer is unbarable,Understandably it has brought all these emotions back for you, Just because you feel the need to cry doesnt mean you arent strong,,,,just human Sending you a warm hug,, Claire

Lots of (((((hugs))))) Jenny. There is no shame in having a good cry as others have said. There comes a time when we all get to the end of our tether and your SiL's illness is obviously the straw that broke the camels back (sorry there are two cliches there). never mind what your hubby thinks, he knows what sort of person you are, or he should do, so he will know that your feelings are not really for yourself but for your SiL and your first husband. I hope the cry will make you feel better. If not, maybe a visit to your Dr to ask for help in coping with your very sad situation. And, as others have said, you know where I am. Ann Glos

You are a strong person but we all need some 'me' time to help us carry on. Crying is probably the best way to heal, you are entitled to feel this way. God bless Love and hugs Janetx

Hello Darling Jenny It's O.K to cry If there is any thing I can do please pm me. Take care Lynne.

Jenny, sending you loads of hugs and kissess, Rosxxxxxx

Jenny, what can i say ... its all been said , but i'll send you some (((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))) and hope that you'll soon be feeling better hazelx

Jenny - there's nothing worse than keeping it all locked in - but if your feeling very low and even depressed go and see your GP. You won't be letting yourself down by going and you don't have to have any medication, just talk to him. Take care:o) jude sarf wales :o)

Oh, Jenny, I'm so sorry. Tears can help release the tension and give you the strength to carry on. Maybe it's because this time there is nothing practical you can do but when your first husband was so ill you had to cope. Gwynne

Jenny ,I dont' know you but I would like to send you some ((((((((Hugs)))))). Let it all out cry, cry and cry again it's good for you to let it all out, it's your body's way of saying 'hold up a minute theres only so much I can take'. Take care Sue x

Jenny Here's a great big {{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}} Time you had some TLC as you have done so much in the past for others and for this dreadfull disease. Take Care Your one special Lady Linda

Sending you a (((hug))) Jenny. xx Kaz

Jenny Ring me if you want to alk Ann xx

Jenny Hope you feel better soon. You are in my thoughts. Nowt wrong with a good cry. Gerry :-))

Ok all you lovely people. My crying stopped about two hours ago and have just had the occasionall tears for the last couple of hours. I must admit I now feel better. But feel very guilty because as I type 17 year old has come downstairs, ( She has a week off college for some reason) and is now tidying all the kitchen wihch i couldnt face earlier. I was so idle last night. I dont think she really knows how I am feeling, although she does know the situation. She probably thinks Mam is in 'One of her moods' lol. I am now going to have a couple of hours sleep as i only got just three hours sleep last night, Jenny. xx

Oh Jenny I have just seen your last message. If you want me for anything pm me. Don't be afraid to give way to your feelings,a good cry is a great stress reliever. I'm still weepy at the moment and get embarrassed but I feel calmer afterwards. You have been through a lot of heartache and need to let go,for your own health's sake. Hoping you're feeling a little better,thinking of you. Mau ((((XXXX)))) Jenny I have sent you a message

Jenny you are feeling like this because you are a caring human being. Cry and let it out love. Will be thinking about you. Linda.

Jenny any thing I could say has been said but my heart still goes out to you sending you <<<<<<<hugs>>>>>> and much more I will always be there for you just pm me Jac