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Jenny (((HUGS))) to you - it's a hard time for any family member to go thru - I know................ My thoughts are with you and yours xxxx

((((HUGS)))) Nicky.x

It just creeps up on you....doesn't it Jenny.....when you least expect it, just when you think you are on an even keel.....then wham.....it hits you again....full in the face......and you are surprised.....where did that come from?? These things never quite go away, and often rear their heads at the time when you think all is going well....it is normal to feel this way....just accept it, and go with the emotion.... If this sounds like rubbish, just ignore it.....this is what I do...just accept what my body needs to do.....and if it needs to cry, then I let myself go....

hi jenny Its 8 years since I lost my first husband to cancer and although I am now very happy with my 2nd husband there are still days when I sit and cry. I think its just human nature. Hope you feel better soon, say hallo to Tynemouth for me Judith

You have every right to cry it is a rellise? valve it will do you good you have been though a lot postive thoughts hugs and prayers Valxxx

Thinking of you Jenny and your family xxx Take care C xxxx

Oh Jenny All I can say is I am thinking of you & your family, I am sorry. Pm me if you need a chat. ((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))) Joan xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Jenny sweetheart, When we keep strong for so long for others sometimes a little voice inside us says ' this is too much, this is too painful' perhaps that has happened, sending you a hug and my prayers, Caz xxxx

Have you thought it might just be good to let your husband see what you are going through. Hugs for you..

Jenny The exact same thing happened to me. I lost mum nearly 17 years ago - lung cancer with secondary to the liver. A year last August we were told a work colleage had pancreatic cancer and that she only had months to live. I couldn't believe my reaction - I was heartbroken which then turned to guilt as I began to realise it was my mum I was thinking about. It opened the floodgates and I ended up being off work for 7 weeks and on anti drepressants. I couldn't even attend her funeral as I was so distraught and guilt ridden. I know exactly how you feel and just sometimes you have to let it go. Thinking of you Debby

Just wanted to send you a big hug (((((()))))). Take care. Kate

Jenny any thing I could say has been said but my heart still goes out to you sending you <<<<<<<hugs>>>>>> and much more I will always be there for you just pm me Jac

Jenny you are feeling like this because you are a caring human being. Cry and let it out love. Will be thinking about you. Linda.

Oh Jenny I have just seen your last message. If you want me for anything pm me. Don't be afraid to give way to your feelings,a good cry is a great stress reliever. I'm still weepy at the moment and get embarrassed but I feel calmer afterwards. You have been through a lot of heartache and need to let go,for your own health's sake. Hoping you're feeling a little better,thinking of you. Mau ((((XXXX)))) Jenny I have sent you a message

Ok all you lovely people. My crying stopped about two hours ago and have just had the occasionall tears for the last couple of hours. I must admit I now feel better. But feel very guilty because as I type 17 year old has come downstairs, ( She has a week off college for some reason) and is now tidying all the kitchen wihch i couldnt face earlier. I was so idle last night. I dont think she really knows how I am feeling, although she does know the situation. She probably thinks Mam is in 'One of her moods' lol. I am now going to have a couple of hours sleep as i only got just three hours sleep last night, Jenny. xx

Jenny Hope you feel better soon. You are in my thoughts. Nowt wrong with a good cry. Gerry :-))

Jenny Ring me if you want to alk Ann xx

Jenny Here's a great big {{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}} Time you had some TLC as you have done so much in the past for others and for this dreadfull disease. Take Care Your one special Lady Linda

Sending you a (((hug))) Jenny. xx Kaz

Jenny ,I dont' know you but I would like to send you some ((((((((Hugs)))))). Let it all out cry, cry and cry again it's good for you to let it all out, it's your body's way of saying 'hold up a minute theres only so much I can take'. Take care Sue x