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Just wanted to send you a big hug (((((()))))). Take care. Kate

Jenny The exact same thing happened to me. I lost mum nearly 17 years ago - lung cancer with secondary to the liver. A year last August we were told a work colleage had pancreatic cancer and that she only had months to live. I couldn't believe my reaction - I was heartbroken which then turned to guilt as I began to realise it was my mum I was thinking about. It opened the floodgates and I ended up being off work for 7 weeks and on anti drepressants. I couldn't even attend her funeral as I was so distraught and guilt ridden. I know exactly how you feel and just sometimes you have to let it go. Thinking of you Debby

Have you thought it might just be good to let your husband see what you are going through. Hugs for you..

Jenny sweetheart, When we keep strong for so long for others sometimes a little voice inside us says ' this is too much, this is too painful' perhaps that has happened, sending you a hug and my prayers, Caz xxxx

Oh Jenny All I can say is I am thinking of you & your family, I am sorry. Pm me if you need a chat. ((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))) Joan xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Thinking of you Jenny and your family xxx Take care C xxxx

You have every right to cry it is a rellise? valve it will do you good you have been though a lot postive thoughts hugs and prayers Valxxx

hi jenny Its 8 years since I lost my first husband to cancer and although I am now very happy with my 2nd husband there are still days when I sit and cry. I think its just human nature. Hope you feel better soon, say hallo to Tynemouth for me Judith

It just creeps up on you....doesn't it Jenny.....when you least expect it, just when you think you are on an even keel.....then wham.....it hits you again....full in the face......and you are surprised.....where did that come from?? These things never quite go away, and often rear their heads at the time when you think all is going well....it is normal to feel this way....just accept it, and go with the emotion.... If this sounds like rubbish, just ignore it.....this is what I do...just accept what my body needs to do.....and if it needs to cry, then I let myself go....

((((HUGS)))) Nicky.x

Jenny (((HUGS))) to you - it's a hard time for any family member to go thru - I know................ My thoughts are with you and yours xxxx

Hi Jenny. Its hard looking outside in. Just let your emotions flow. I still have a tough time myself, even after 17 years with my frst wife dying from Cancer at 39 years old. I look at all my daughters all grown up and in there late 20s early 30s now with children of there own, and think about their mum, and how much i would love her to be here, and see how they have grown into fine young lady's with her grandkids. I read the threads here, and see people terminally ill, and feel for them and there families. It brings back memories of my own time dealing with it, and it has emotional affects on myself. Its hard to hold it in, and one shouldn't. Its life in reality, and if you feel the need to express your feelings and have a good cry, then let it out. You are a strong person already, because you coped with it before, and got though it. Best wishes. Tony Oz.x

Jenny, My thoughts are with you. There's nothing wrong with having a good cry to release your emotions. You are human. Tomorrow is another day, and I hope it brings you sunshine. (((hugs)) - Deb

Morning Jenny. Yesterday was a day when you felt really low. Heres hoping that you feel alot better today. ((((((((hugs)))))))) for you. Love Hilary. xxx

Good morning all you lovely people. Thank you all for your support. I went and got into bed just turned 5pm last night and managed to sleep right through until 6am this morning. I feel much better and ready to tackle the world, lol. Thank you for all your pm's I will answer them throughout the morning. May you all have a lovely day. Love Jenny. xxxx

Good to know you are feeling better, Jenny Gwynne

Big Hugs((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) for Jenny!! sending love and healing thoughts to you!! Love Helenxx

Glad to see you :-)))))) Hilary. xx

Glad you had a good nights sleep and feel better this morning. Sending you ////HUGS//// Take care Love Mary in Spain xx

Jenny, I have just read your thread and your update.....I am so glad that you are feeling much better this morning ..... things get to us all at times hey.... Have a great day girl Sal xxx