General Chat

Jenny so sorry to hear you are so low.You probably are a strong person.Even strong people have sad days.You have every right to feel low.Just hope you can see a brighter light.(((((HUGS))))) for you Annie xx

Jenny its because you are such a lovely person and must feel so helpless, all we can do for our loved ones at this time is to be loving and supportive. Kate xx

Jenny, You still care about people and have a good heart and that's probably why you are crying. You have been under a lot of strain and this could be a reaction to it. Give in, have a damned good cry and get it out in the open. I'm sure you'll feel better afterwards. Thinking of you and sending cyber (((HUGS))) to you, Love Viv

Ok I think I have reason to be sad, but not to the point that I am sitting breaking my heart. I feel so low and upset, I just cannot stop crying. I have bottled up all my emotions to help my Husband through a most terrible time because his Sister is very ill fighting Cancer. It is bringing back all the memories of my feeling when my first husband was terminaly ill. Why on earth am I feeling like this, I always thoughtg I was a strong person? Jenny. .

Blimey woman you have to weep for yourself at some point..... I tried to be brave for Gaynor's family and in the end, 3 months after she died I cracked and was prescibed anti-depressants!! You are a strong person..... you are also HUMAN!! (((hugs)))

oh jenny ,bless you.just let it out.you have your reasons and thats cool.give me a shout if you need help.hugsxxxxxxxxxxxjoy

Jenny sweet heart, so sorry to hear you are having a rough time right now, please don't be ashamed of having a few tears, PM me if you want to offload some emotional baggage, i honestly do not mind, you are a lovely lady and i send you a big warm hug,to help you through your day. xxIzzyxx

Jenny - been there (the crying not the husband) Go and see your doctor. I spent nearly a month thinking I could cope, I'd get over it. For me it got harder and harder to cope with. Please see your GP. ((((((Hugs)))))) T.O.R. x

Jenny get help love,we all need it sometime so please gert help

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( Jenny ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) If you want toi cry - go ahead.... I know life is bl**dy awful at times - be strong we are all thinking of you. (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( HUGS ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Lots of Love Gaynor :-) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Some times you just need to - when you feel a bit brighter, maybe you'll wonder why you did, I guess the answer to that is that you needed to at the time

Awww Jenny, I so wish I was nearer. Chin up hun, another day tomorrow. Try and focus on the good things that are going on...hard I know, when you have sad thoughts. Is there any part of your tree you need help with? I can help you to find and focus on something else? If I can help at all, please tell me. Tina x

jenny youre feeling like that cos you are human. you can only bottle so much up hun please take care and i hope my email helped you:) hugs love susie x

Jenny A big (((((((((HUG))))))))) for you. Even if you think you are strong a good cry is allowed. It is a difficult time for all of you. Thinking of you. Love Hilary. xxx

Jenny, i am sending love and (((((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))) You have a lot to deal with love, but it's time to let your OH take some of the load, expalin to him how you feel, i'm sure he does'nt realise!! You are in my thoughts!! with much love Helenxx

Jenny been there this last year (as you know) Went on a stress management course and only there 10 mins when the crying started and went on and on! They told me that I had to learn I couldn't be all things to all people and to learn to say no instead of always agreeing to help others. Hard I know but sometimes you just have to take a back seat. Take care of yourself. love Linda x

Hi Jenny,Im sending you a ((hug)),I do hope you feel better soon. Roxanne xx

jenny please dont cry((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))) life is,nt fair sometimes but i hope things will get better for you sending all my love joyce from hollandxx

Thanks for your replies, I am dreading my Hubby coming home and seeing my red and swollen eyes. To top it all I am now very tempted to open a bottle of wine, and have a very early night. Why is it that I coped with my terminally ill Husband for 6 years, who I loved very much and also had three children to look after, all under 10 yrs old and i think I coped very well. Then I now go to pieces when faced with this new crisis. jenny.

Hi Jenny Crying is a release - I do it so many times - and always on my own - I hate people seeing me cry. A doctor told me 30 years ago it was the best medicine - to have a good cry. Also, from my experience, to talk about what is making you feel like this is also good - a trouble shared is a trouble halved. If you want to talk you can pm me - it wont go any further. Make yourself a cup of tea or coffee and take a few deep breathes. Hope you feel better before hubby gets home. Take care Love Mary in Spain xx