General Chat

Morning:)
Thanks Liz for the update, she was in such a state yesterday and could'bt get hold of the hospital, and they did'nt understand her! She thought he was going to have dialysis.So pleased you spoke to her, you have better info to put on here :-) :-)
Yes its a real shame no one from the UK can visit her, this is when she really needs the help, she's always there for everyone else.

jude xx

Sorryto hear about Jan Hope he will be feeling better soon. You take care of yourself too Joyce.

Love Mary xx

Hi Joyce, sorry our chat was short last evening. Hope you are getting some sleep and will have better news tomorrow.

Joyce told me Jan is having dialysis through a line in his groin but it may be moved today to his shoulder. She is spending time with Jan when her s.i.l. takes her and will be having help come in to assist her morning and evenings but not last night, hence her being up so late I expect.

Seems the doc when he came in said Jan's lungs were the problem but obviously missed the problem with his kidneys. Thank goodness Jan was taken to hospital so they could help him properly. Joyce says she is crying a lot, which is understandable, but hopefully she will feel stronger as she sees Jan getting good treatment and will cope ok. It would be great if someone from her family went over to give her some support even if only for a couple of days or so.

Poor Jan, life doesn't get any easier for him or Joyce,does it? He's such a nice man.


I am hoping to talk with Joyce again later today so will update this if I do.

Come on Joyce, stay strong, eat properly and stay as well as you can for Jan, so he doesn't fret about you as well.

love and hugs

Lizxx

thank you everyone they put in another dont no eve i spell this right another dia alestr which too 4 hours if its not its not going right ,tomorrow they are going to take it out of his gronin and put it in his shoulder,and he can pass water but not anything think as ,so its going to take 6 hours,but its being along all the time i dont speak dutch ,so when i come back from Jan im on my own
soneone and why yo i cofe i have had that and snessing for 3 months,but Jan said the hospital has taken halk of his medicean from him and they phoned the chemest but case the docter said he had lung problem ,which he never it was kidney,my grandaughter was going to come over as she was worryed about me but it was 300 pound ,and she could,nt afourd i said if i had i would pay,so one of my eldes sons is going to help i hope its another but 3 days she will be gone as 3 children have to go to school ,and her and her hubby work ,so fingers crosed ,i,ll get the money for her to come ,going into morry so see jan and i will let you know how he is getting on,and thank you im going to try and sleep noexx

Thinking of you and Jan Dutch <3

Poor Jan.......get well soon and Dutch, please look after yourself as well.

xx

Thanks for keeping us updated Jude.


Still thinking of Jan <3 and also of Joyce <3

Jan and Joyce, sending lots of positive thoughts and hugs your way. <3 <3 <3

Thanks Jude. Still thinking of Jan <3 Joyce and of you. <3 <3

Thanks for letting us know Jude :-) <3

I have just spoken to Dutch bless her.... <3

Dutch try and be positive and keep your best smile for Jan OK ??
Let us know when you get back from the hospital today how he is.
Rest now and get your strength for later x
Loads of love to you both <3

l'll tell you what l don't usually add these <3 emoticons, but they are needed in this situation and having met you in person l know how worried you are <3

jude xx
PS...if l could l'd come and help out x

Dutch thinking of you and Jan <3

Sending you both my very best wishes .

Jan is in the right place and can get the treatment he needs .Its easy to say dont get yourself worked up too as it wont help you or him ,but of course you will be so worried about him .

Hope you hear some better news soon

Shirley :-)

Hi Joyce,

Sorry I missed your call last evening Will talk to you soon.

Try not to get yourself in a state over Jan's health as it won't help either of you. I hope he will feel lots better once he has any treatment available, at least now you know why he felt so ill and he is being looked after where he can get instant attention.

Will be thinking about you both and hope to hear better news soon,

love and hugs

Lizxx

Hope Jan gets better soon <3

As others have said, look after yourself too Joyce <3

so sorry to hear that Jan is unwell Dutch, but hopefully they will be able to treat him.

Try and look after yourself because he will need you to be there for him.

Sending you positive thoughts and my best wishes

Florence
in the hebrides <3

Hello Dutch...just read this. ......

Thinking of Jan and hoping he feels better really soon x

You take care of yourself.

jude xx

Just looking in to see if there is any news tonight, Joyce I hope that there is at least a small improvement in Jan's conditions this evening.

Sending you both lots of positive thoughts and hugs. <3 <3

Love, Sallie and Alun.xxx

Sorry to hear your husband has been so ill Dutch.

Wishing Jan a speedy return to good health and that he will
be home again with you soon.

Take care Dutch try not to tire yourself too much.

Jo

Get well soon Jan <3 Dutch look after yourself you need to stay strong <3 <3

Thinking of Jan and Dutch <3