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...does anybody on here actually HATE a person. I personally find that a strong word, and though I have been disillusioned, upset, annoyed, downright angry, wound up or hurt by others, I can honestly say I have never come to hate anybody.

I can dislike or distrust someone, that's a different kettle of fish.

No this isn't a hate thread, but it is a DEBATE discussing hate.

VERY close to hating one person on here for what she did to somebody I know and care about........but the rest.......nah just irritated by em at times LOL xx

Once you start to hate you get bitter and twisted
and boy have we seen some of that

i dont hate anybody
though there is some
i cant be bothered with and wouldnt waste my breath on replying to

I dont hate anyone to muster up all that energy to hate some you might as well love them, so no I dont hate anyone.... I adore lots of people on here I like many too some I can take or leave and then there is about 3 that amuse me greatly....thats nicer then hating isnt it ?

im the same, hate is a strong word,

i dislike 3+1 lol but i dont hate anybody

lifes to short, iv also disliked people who i now think are ok, but saying that iiv liked people who i now dislike lol

Absolutely Hayley.

Joy, you're so right, and life is too short isn't it?

Muffy, I know how close you've come, but was that hate or just anger and hurt at the time?

I dont' think I have it in me to actually hate someone. As Hayley said, it takes up far to much energy that could be channelled into something far more useful. To hate someone, you will be brought down too. Dont' do it to yourself.

yes.

But what a waste of emotional energy Rose. lol

Nooo - far too stressful.

I tend, and I stress tend, to ignore those who really irritate me.

Otherwise, I'm happy to chat to anyone - on here and in real life!

Jill

oh reading Roses discript.....I may well just do that,,,,,,,:}}}}}}}}}}}


I may hate actions,,,but nah,,,,,,it aint worth my energy I'd rather use it for good.....:}}}}}

Rose in your shoes yes I would too....as I say I prefer the word amuse when they bore me I shut them out :)))

I'm not sure TW it mostly depends on what time of the month it is !!! OLOLOLOL xx

energy is never wasted Teresa , it can be the spur for great things :) yes if you channel it inward it can destroy you more than the person who gave you cause to hate them... but channel that 'hate' energy you feel into making your life what theirs can never be... that is productive :)

Cor, hate is a "strong" word.....

I know there are one or two on here who have said that they hate me. Which is fine - they don't even know me lol

As for me, I don't think I hate anybody, here or anywhere else. There are a few I dislike and a few I avoid for various reasons.

But hate? Not me.... Mr Tolerant!

Can say simply no......never had any cause to hate anyone......I sometimes find people act strangely, but then who is to say that I am right and they are wrong.....

Hate as I have always said is a strong word. When I was with my ex husband, he was without going into personal stuff., horrendous to live with, I should have hated him as I am often told by family, but I feel sorry for him. He has "issues" and unless he sorts them he will always be unhappy and lonely.

Me, I escaped from him and am the happiest I can be. No one on here I hate, some I think are a waste of energy...some spout comments and they can't back them up with any "proof", (even if you ask em too..blankl!!)

Aww Tony hun I was only joking

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I think I should HATE 2 people.Not here but in my personal life.But I am unable to feel Hate.One person I blame for the death of my best friend.I actually had to go for councelling for that .The best thing I ever did.It somehow showed me that hate or anger would actually do me no good.I won't go into the second person as it is too long winded lol.
No I don't HATE anyone .I may dislike them ...then I forget about them ...they don't exist.