General Chat

if we lived closer specky would be your man, remember his nick name tho frank spencer
hope you perk up soon have a visit to shrops if you like we are painting lol

Gawd missus, I wish you lived nearer. The weather's pluddy awful here as well, but it could be worse I suppose (but don't quote me on that lol).
Oh - and consider yer ear clipped for saying you're fat. YOU'RE NOT!!!!! (Yes, shouting now lol). You have a healthy build, OK? Good!
x

maybe a hot meal and a drink alcoholic or otherwise and you will feel less tired and more positive. anyway, glad you went home early, better to be at home and please don't take it out on the pussies.

ann
Glos xxx

Thanks all .............

I ended up coming home an hour early - pointless sitting there blubbing all over my desk and getting nothing done.

Initially i thought it was a bad idea cos all the cats kicked off when i got in (rainy days = hyperactive housebound cats grrr) and they got bellowed at which made me feel worse cos i hate shouting at them - it's not their fault.

I feel less tearfull now - just tired and subdued - think hormones have been leaping around too which hasn't helped :O(


But thank you all again for your kind words and hugs - they're all very much appreciated :O) xxx


**spoke too soon - tears are back**

Hi Anita

I am sure that this horrible dark gloomy wet weather today has dragged everyones spirits down. we need the sun back again. Anita, sorry that you are having a bad time lots of ((((((hugs)))))) for you. As for there being people worse off, well so they may be but, as we only feel our own pain while knowing others suffer even worse pain, so we only feel our own depression with our world. I hope coming on here and knowing you have lots of good virtual friends is a help in some way.

Why don't you make yourself approach your friend and ask if she was serious about her husband doing the kitchen or has something come up to prevent it. You could also say that you don't actually expect something for nothing and are prepared to pay £???? whatever you were going to pay before she offered a freebie. write it if it is easier, or e mail if you e mail each other. You will at least know where you stand then. It is the not knowing that is making you feel so down, that added to the disappointment of not moving. I would be inclined to go back to the doctor if you don't feel better soon.

And your Mother is being selfish, although she probably is just insensitive. Maybe once she has visited your brother she will change her mind. It must be tempting to ask her which home she'd prefer later on!!!!

Speaking about homes (as BC was) and children. When we were visiting my father in a home seven years ago my daughter told me when I got like the people in there she was taking me to the vet!!! I think she was joking!!

Ann
glos

where in Kent are you Anne?

i could always pop over its not that far away

julia x

I have a dress size of 28 bet you cannot beat that then !

Fat indeed, at least you can talk of a bikini, mine if I should ever entertain one, bless my soul, would simply disappear!!!

(((((((((((((((((((((HUGE HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Tina xx

Hi McAnne

How you feeling any better ? hope so, I know it is hard being taken for granted, but you will probably find when you Mother phones your brother she raves on about you :O))

Try to look on the positive side of things, in a few months you will have your home like a little palace,


((((((((((((((((((((( HUGS ))))))))))))))))))))))


for today though :O)

Altogether now, OH NO YOU'RE NOT !

I am sure your fat is just a myth, you might be buxom (what a descriptive word lol) but if you want to see fat, look at me lol Could join the RolyPolys only I can't get my leg up high enough!!!

xxx

BC - if only ............... i don't have a bikini that i can get anywhere near anymore, i'm so fat now :O(

Hugs for all:-))) I think the grey, miserable, rainy, old weather has a lot to do with our moods. If the sun was shining and you were in the garden in your best bikini, Anita, you would be feeling so much better! Everyone feels alone at times, even if we are surrounded. BC XX

Sue

that was a nice thought -thank you

it's very rare i get thought of

just for once i want to shout 'WHAT ABOUT ME???'

mum rings and asks how i am - and before i know the convo has turned to her or my brother - me i'm just dismissed cos everyone elses problems are more important

well no - they're not !!

Sorry Merlin had not realised - really - how interesting, might have to take a trip to Brighton, what day would that be? That wouldn't be the rude end would it? LOL

Tina

Tina, No Sun Dances Please, They do enough of those on a certain part of Brighton Beach,and the sight is Terrifying. :o))))>.pmsl.**M**.

SORRY ANITA

Oh my, Dizzi has started now. Gosh it must be the blinky weather getting everyone down, perhaps we should start a sun dance to bring out the sunshine.

((((((hugs)))))) for Dizzi.

Tina xxxxx

If only you were like this yesterday - not that I wish you to be miserable any day lol but I had my new bus pass delivered and I can travel all over - well nearly all over for free - I could have had a trundle over to Kent and given you a real HUGE hug! Wednesdays are my days off btw.

Tina xxxxx

Sending Dizzy a (((((((((HUG))))))))))) too.
Love Mary xx

ANITA
I GOT OH

BUT DO I GET A HUG

I HAVE TO CRY IN THE LOO
I HATE MY LIFE
EXCEPT FOR A ESCAPE WITH FRIENDS

COUPLE OF TIMES A YEAR

THATS ALL I GOT

THATS IT NOW IM BAWLING
ME EYES OUT

((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))

from me too

julia xx