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Sue in Somerset

Sue in Somerset Report 16 Jan 2008 22:24

It's fun if you do find a link back to a well documented mediaeval family because, if you are lucky, it can link into most of the Norman families and Royalty all over Europe.

I know literally millions of people must be descended from the same ancestors but, when I was in the V&A Museum recently, I saw replicas of the tombs of several Kings and Queens and it sent a tingle down my spine. Just knowing that if they hadn't existed I wouldn't be here is amazing.

It has its funny moments sometimes like when Time Team were digging up the ruined castle of a Robert de Belleme. He was such a nasty person who tortured people and my husband said that he bet Robert was one of mine! I did a bit of hunting online and soon discovered that one of his descendants was one of my ancestors!

I've got lots of baddies and some actual saints as well so I suppose it evens out.

Sue
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*Melanie*

*Melanie* Report 18 Jan 2008 19:28

I having trouble with this Allen - Dove marriage because I know for sure Geo. Dove was born in Lincolnshire and it is strange that the marriage was in Kent, Kent is 180 miles away from Lincolnshire. Any ideas?

*Melanie*

*Melanie* Report 19 Jan 2008 09:31

Please anyone?

Heather

Heather Report 19 Jan 2008 11:41

Sorry Melanie, why do you say the marriage was in Kent? Because it says Diocese of Canterbury? That doesnt mean the event was in Kent, it just means that it was in an area owned by the Diocese. The Archbishop of Canterbury is/was the Primate of all England and various lands and properties were owned by Canterbury diocese all over the country.

Heather

Heather Report 19 Jan 2008 12:05

Sue, I cant get over that my ancestor was at the Court of Elizabeth 1st. I mean, its mind blowing isnt it. Plus his line goes back to the domesday book and beyond.

On top of that I recently had a contact from someone who is doing a one name study on the Gamage family in my line and they have been on the task with professional help for 3 decades and sent me some amazing detail which appears to show that I had another line also at the Court of Elizabeth 1st - LOL, and also from the Norman invasion of 1066..

As you say, it was a small country and a small population and back then people would intermarry with others of the same standing, so no doubt most of us have aristos/royalty in our line.

Sue in Somerset

Sue in Somerset Report 19 Jan 2008 12:56

I think it is wonderful Heather

I was completely in a daze for a little while when I discovered I had a line that went back to William the Conqueror and to various European royals.

It wore off a bit when I had done some reading and realised that millions of people have the same ancestry but it is still great to know how the line goes.

I've since had huge fun exploring the backgrounds of many of the women who married into the family and that has led to such surprising ancestors. I've found El Cid, Lady Godiva, Alfred the Great, Charlemagne etc etc.

I think one of the most astonishing which shows how much royal women moved in medieval times is the ancestry of Philippa the Queen of Edward III. Her lineage goes back to eventually to Hungary then to the Princes of Kiev then to a woman called Gytha who was the daughter of King Harold (the loser at the Battle of Hastings). She had fled to Scandinavia when her father lost to the Conqueror and eventually married Vladimir of Kiev.

It all gets very complicated and tangled and I love it!!!

Sue
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Heather

Heather Report 19 Jan 2008 14:26

Strange thing is Sue, once I found the lines and had sketchy ideas, I havent put a lot of effort into looking at them. I dont know why. I spose cos Ive got used to the idea of having certs etc. and of course you dont get that once you are back beyond 16th century.

And I dont know about you, but when I first started realising where my line was leading, I sort of had a disbelief, that I was kidding myself. Fact is I have apprenticeship records, court records, wills etc. to back it up but I still had terrible self doubts. My cousin (only found through this research!) got a bit despairing of me constantly wanting more and more confirmation of lines and I guess we have done everything possible virtually to ensure this is the right line. In fact blanks that worried me have become filled as time goes on - like the will which mentions one supposed direct ancestor and I searched and searched for his death because otherwise I couldnt tie it in with the son (who was my direct ancestor). Blow me, I was doing a google book search (brilliant that) and up comes this chap - with mention he was lost at sea on a journey back from the Indies - ships name, date everything - tied in beautifully with my bloke and such a relief. I couldnt stand not being sure of a line.

But I do still feel a little frisson of excitement when they mention a name on a costume drama and I think, hmm, one of mine! LOL. It was interesting that one of the Gamage Norman/Welsh line is someone my sister has always had an intense interest in(Lord Dudley) - so it was a pleasure to tell her he is a rellie - LOL. The first time she had showed much interest to be truthful!

Thing is Sue, we are probably related aswell - LOL!

Simon

Simon Report 19 Jan 2008 14:31

I'm struggling to get back any further than 1700 - 1800 with my Ancestors.

I would love to go back a few more hundred years.

Good luck with your research

Heather

Heather Report 19 Jan 2008 14:36

It will happen Simon - whenever I feel low at a dead end after a few months up comes something new and off I go again. Have you tried National Archives, google books, A2A?

Sue in Somerset

Sue in Somerset Report 19 Jan 2008 16:50

We probably are Heather.

I've got early Suttons (Dudleys) too.

My 11x great grandmother is Elizabeth Dudley b. abt. 1488 Hatherington, Sussex who was the daughter of Edmund Dudley.b.abt.1472 beheaded Tower Hill 2 Aug. 1510
So Elizabeth I's favourite Robert Dudley is a distant cousin of mine.

I have a huge ahnentafel now and I am willing to compare ancestors if you want to PM me.

Sue
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Heather

Heather Report 19 Jan 2008 19:25

LOL - so we probably are related!

Oh Sue, have to say I havent added anything back before about 1600 on my FTM, Im still a sceptical old ********** - you can see how frustrated my enthusiastic cousin gets with me. I want it all black and white when it will always be grey. I suppose I should relax and accept we have found the right lines and start adding it to my stuff.

I was just SO sceptical that the guys who had become watermen/lightermen could be only 3 generations away from an aristo but I have seen now that it does happen - in fact Ive found the younger sons being apprenticed to various trades when their elder bro go on to illustrious careers and remain titled.

When the other - Gamages line - person contacted me and told me that my lot were from the Gamages shop line and all the other details going back to Wales I wrote back saying, No I dont think so, my lot were making boxes in London at that time. But back she came saying Oh yes, the cousins were involved in box making for the Gamages shop! LOL. Just shows you how you can be too iffy about the lineage whereas others are happy to add Adam and Eve without a second glance.

Sue in Somerset

Sue in Somerset Report 19 Jan 2008 20:45

I was very sceptical too Heather. It really didn't seem likely that ag labs could be closely related to nobility.

I double checked the lines back and there weren't many steps between my 2x great grandmother Sarah Ann Fines and my 8x great Henry Clinton-Fiennes the 2nd Earl of Lincoln.

Once you get there it links into Burkes Peerage and all sorts of well researched sites. I have found some dodgy lines way back but the main ones are sound and well accepted.

What a lot of people don't seem to have explored are the lines back from some of the women and those have turned up a lot of the most interesting ones.

Sue