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Click ADD REPLY button - not this link! Report 30 Mar 2007 18:27

Tell us more about the aunt? Is she your mother's or father's sister? Rose

Adele

Adele Report 30 Mar 2007 18:53

The aunt was my adopted mum`s sister, she never mentioned my bm just bf. Mary

Penny

Penny Report 30 Mar 2007 18:57

You will be extremly lucky if they send you the advice direct - in fact , they probably wont. Under current legislation , you need to have been councilled prior to recieveing this info- have you already had this?

Adele

Adele Report 30 Mar 2007 22:08

Yes I was councilled when I got my original certificate. Mary

Christine2

Christine2 Report 30 Mar 2007 22:32

Could Mary perhaps have been born Thomas but married an Edwards before marrying a Rees?

Sheila

Sheila Report 30 Mar 2007 22:43

Hi Adele, Chrissie that is what I have been thinking if she is the right person she was 38/39 when she had Adele, she could have been a war widow, or it is possible she fell pregnant with you while he was away from home, that is why the adoption was necessary. It would make sense though that is why I cannot find a birth entry for her under the name Mary Enid Edmunds. Will send you a PM. Sheila

Penny

Penny Report 31 Mar 2007 07:10

That is unsual. most people , armed with their birth name, just send for their birth cert. I wonder why the councillor didnt apply for the court records then? I really wonder how an adoptive mums sister would get info/know anything UNLESS this was a 'between the family ' kind of adoption.

Adele

Adele Report 31 Mar 2007 09:12

Can I thank you all for your help it` is fascinating. M y aunt knew some details because she lived near my bf family`s home.It was suggested to my adopted Mum that she look after me because she couldn`t have children and so it happened.Since my adopted Mum died quite a few people knew I belonged to my bf`s family but nothing about my birth mother. Veru complicated I know. I can see the logic in thinking she married twice and would explian how noone can find her birth record.Best Wishes Mary

Christine2

Christine2 Report 31 Mar 2007 11:34

Good morning Adele I have been looking for a marriage for the Mary E D Thomas that the ladies found last night. I was hoping to see whether we could prove or disprove whether this may be your mother. However, it is looking quite likely that it is a different lady. I finally found a marriage in July-Sept 1934 of a Mary E D Thomas to an Ernest A Rees in Swansea (Ref 11a 2387). So it would appear that this is probably the one that the two ladies found. Good luck with your search. Chrissie