Genealogy Chat

Hi Gerri,

Hope that the situation has improved a bit and you have been able to get the help needed.

Regards

Rachelle

Hi everyone

No change with regard to Paul. It's still a waiting game. No sedation but still not waking up. The machines still breathing for him.

Pauls Wife did get his Dads phone number. She found his Sisters number in an unused drawer and asked her.

She phoned him and told him of the situation and he came to the Hospital the next day.
He stood over Paul and went on and on about how his new wife wasnt having any of this as SHE wasnt being included!

He asked the nurse questions about his sons condition even though my friend had already told him all she knew.
The nurse just refered him back to Pauls wife....She told him that my friend had been at his side all this time and knew everything that there was to be told.

He diddnt touch his Son or talk to him or ask how my friend was. He diddnt even ask how his 4 grandchildren were!

My friend did the decent thing in contacting him but i think now she should tell him to S#d off!
He told her that he would pop in later on this month as he had a BBQ invite to go to in the area!

You sure can choose your friends but NOT your Family!

Prayers for Paul please.

Gerri x

Hi Gerri,

At least your friend has let Pauls father know. He comes across as being emotionless and uncaring, I'm surprised he actually went to the hospital. I hope it's not too long before Paul wakes up and is on his way to a full recovery, please keep us updated.

Chris

They took the breathing tube out today and he's now breathing on his own. So thats one hurdle.

He's lost an awful lot of weight and his eyes sometimes open, although my friend says...theres no one there.....yet!

Fingers crossed for more good news.

Gerri x

My friend swears Paul reconised her today!

He had a male nurse today and he pulled a face at him suggesting he diddnt like him.(this is just like the old Paul we know)

Doctors told her that they will be transfering him to a specialised Hospital soon. More long term...
We just hope it's not too far away.
This cant happen untill he has recovered from the diarrhea that he contracted while being in this Hospital.

Bring back the old Matrons i say!!!! and in house cleaners!(not contractors)
You used to go into Hospital to be made better! not catch God knows what while in there!

OK rant over...

Stay strong Paul we all rooting for you darlin x

Gerri

Praying for Paul and his family,
My thoughts are with them,
Carla X

Hi Gerri,

Hoping that there has been some improvement in both your friend's condition and his father's behaviour!

Rachelle

Hello, I have sent an address in Belper. Hope it helps.